<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14962466</id><updated>2011-04-21T21:05:05.688-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Dissecting The Modern American Female</title><subtitle type='html'>Observational Essay On Modern Social Dynamics</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://modernamericanfemaleobservation.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14962466/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://modernamericanfemaleobservation.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>David A. Archer - Proximity Gestation</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17261578118123514920</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7309/1279/1600/david_a_archer_.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14962466.post-112275355104773069</id><published>2005-07-30T12:58:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2005-08-04T13:23:13.216-07:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;center&gt;&lt;strong&gt;DISSECTING&lt;br /&gt;THE&lt;br /&gt;MODERN AMERICAN FEMALE&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;A Sociological Observation&lt;br /&gt;Part I&lt;br /&gt;By&lt;br /&gt;David A. Archer&lt;br /&gt;02/15/1968&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dissecting the Modern American Female part I&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Copyright ©2005&lt;br /&gt;David A. Archer&lt;br /&gt;02/15/1968&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="4"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The modern American female is a quite curious creature, a&lt;br /&gt;person of any walk must admit. Several years of close observation&lt;br /&gt;and study have prompted me to begin this work. I intend to address what I have observed and experienced from a very honest stand point. I do not intend to gloss anything over or “sugar coat” any aspect of what I have surmised…. Some of it quite alarming in the least. In the same notion, I do intend to maintain a very unbiased&lt;br /&gt;position. I do not intend for this to become a female bashing tool&lt;br /&gt;of any sort, only an honest observation for what ever it is worth.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Further I should state that I spent no less than a decade in very close quarters with some of the most militant and extreme of the ‘feminist’ extremists. It proved to be quite enlightening and mostly to the effect that those extreme stances are actually as much or more susceptible to manipulation than those of the average American Female. Within that time period, I was fortunate enough to witness&lt;br /&gt;the existence of the other extreme within the very same physical&lt;br /&gt;areas…. Even in close quarters within the work place.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of these individuals of “the other extreme” was (and probably still is) a very distasteful sort. Chauvinist to the extreme measure of a type which employed deception to a degree that would border on cunning if it weren’t so sad. More than once, this individual flat out stated to me that “girls are dumb.” And from the&lt;br /&gt;result of the situation in reference, I have to say that he was correct.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Never before had I seen such an outward display of disrespect for&lt;br /&gt;the female human creature… and in the same motion, never before&lt;br /&gt;had I seen such a positive response to those affronts from the&lt;br /&gt;direction of those females- many being of that extremist position.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This ‘gentleman’ was/is a womanizer in every sense of the word, even to the point of verbal abuse and ‘coercive measures.’ It garnered him a position in the ranks of esteemed individuals within the industry in which this observation took place. To the degree of monetary funding and placement….. even the label of ‘intelligence,’ and ‘talent,’ all in the midst of and under the label of ‘feminist extremism,’ and all within a proverbial ‘stones throw’ of American Feminist leaders…. Many of whom contributed to the furthering of his career. One of the biggest chauvinists I have ever met, was/is funded and cared for from the purse strings of extreme ‘feminism.’&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That situation and his apparent success gives pause to considering the actual motive of the modern feminine movement. Did they simply give up? Is it simply a trade of actual position and personal achievement, for the facade of it? Is it that they have relegated themselves to simply playing a part in the chauvinist world….. doing&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;so in exchange for some false station… some empty costume, while the actual productivity of the world rots around them?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A person would think that such a situation would be hard to find, but again… in that respect…. it seems very much that he was/is correct. The modern American female doesn’t seem to have the capacity to exist beyond some type of ‘programming’ and in that is really quite susceptible to manipulation… even and especially in those extremes. As if they are more than pleased to play the part of the ‘dupe.’ Finding perhaps a comfort in having a ready made scapegoat and excuse to not address those issues which are very much human concern within basic decision making.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The façade itself is one of extremes and exists well within what appears to be a well worn dichotomy; False respect and abuse. The extremists on both ends seemingly pleased with this dynamic for various reasons… many of which have to do with sexual inclinations and tastes, and the juxtaposition those inclinations have with the&lt;br /&gt;society that they portend to uphold… the façade that they maintain in both extremes. The men posturing as respectable gents and the woman as ‘Lilly white doves’… and very militant doves at that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This dynamic… that of secrecy and delusion, is dangerous to society itself in several ways. The first of which is disease… then further acting as a detriment to the very fabric of society in the social sense, not to mention the damage done to what progress may have been made concerning actual feminine rights. The need for&lt;br /&gt;such an ‘enabling’ dynamic is indicative of the lack of decision making capacity which I have mentioned. I can only imagine the need for such a dynamic stemming from the connotations attached to sexuality…. But even in considering that, a person has to see that such dynamics act as nothing more than a damaging element to the&lt;br /&gt;progress of losing those connotations. To allow oneself to be a party to the utilization of such ‘excuse’ is to display a lack of assertion and personal responsibility itself, within such situations. Where then in that, is the display of any quality fit to make decisions for a community? Again, I have to state that the secrecy element (O.k. .. but don’t tell) is a very real danger as history has proven, to societies on the whole. What does that statement alone, say about the&lt;br /&gt;person that issues it? If a person isn’t adult enough to be responsible for their sexual choices, why then should they be seen as responsible enough to make decisions which influence their direct societies and even society on a larger scale? Why should they have room for judgment of others in a very real sense (in given the&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;situations). Amazingly enough, this attitude was very much the&lt;br /&gt;standard operating attitude within that community. From my&lt;br /&gt;perspective, they may as well have just out and renounced their&lt;br /&gt;feminist ploys as being what they were… nothing more than a front&lt;br /&gt;to fall again into the subjugated situations of ‘sexual oppression.’&lt;br /&gt;Having done so of their own choice and action. As if it were more&lt;br /&gt;than a choice…. Even to the degree of ‘need.’ Wanting to be seen as&lt;br /&gt;independent and assertive, but lacking entirely the capacity and&lt;br /&gt;sinew with which to make those choices…. To address their own&lt;br /&gt;wants… to consciously decide upon a direction, and follow through&lt;br /&gt;with it without having the excuse of a very dated dynamic. When&lt;br /&gt;did the feminist movement become “O.K. I’ll do it, as long as I have&lt;br /&gt;an excuse?” As long as “I’m not seen as a dirty girl?” When did it&lt;br /&gt;become a mechanism to hide “dirty little secrets?” I was always&lt;br /&gt;under the impression that the movement was about liberation from&lt;br /&gt;such sickened needs… such pathetic disposition…. To the degree of&lt;br /&gt;personal responsibility, even. Individual independence. Decision&lt;br /&gt;making. Respect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From this point, I will continue with addressing the subject of&lt;br /&gt;assertion. More-so the frighteningly large lack of it within the&lt;br /&gt;modern American Female. I realize that such a statement alone,&lt;br /&gt;will bring hoards of response in a negative sense (and also realize&lt;br /&gt;that such is directly as result of much of that which I am to address&lt;br /&gt;here-in), but sometimes the truth has to be stated…. And in that I&lt;br /&gt;would point out that response to an advert and reaction to a&lt;br /&gt;television series does not amount to assertion. Nor does obstinacy&lt;br /&gt;in the face of reality…. and even less is vindictive spite and rage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In my observations, I find myself shocked at the lack of actual&lt;br /&gt;assertion within the female population. I am a bit curious about it’s&lt;br /&gt;level… especially in regard to how easily influenced the American&lt;br /&gt;female seems to be. This even beyond demographic advertisement&lt;br /&gt;and covering all degrees of the American female. From the radical&lt;br /&gt;feminist to the ‘bare foot and pregnant’ type. None being any less&lt;br /&gt;moveable in that sense. All being very much “Tell me what I think”&lt;br /&gt;on many levels…. Allot of it within the advertising and marketing,&lt;br /&gt;programming. And it is seen as very much normal….. it is expected&lt;br /&gt;that a person has to acknowledge it for being the ‘feminine right’ to&lt;br /&gt;posture as such in the midst of such destruction…. when it is&lt;br /&gt;nothing more than the destruction of any semblance of the&lt;br /&gt;feminine right.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For years, I always thought that the “beer commercial” was aimed&lt;br /&gt;largely at the male audience… but upon closer study and&lt;br /&gt;observation, it is easy to see how the “beer commercial” mentality is&lt;br /&gt;geared as much to effect the modern female as it is to effect the&lt;br /&gt;modern male here in America. The media bombards the American&lt;br /&gt;female with “how she should look,” “what she should purchase,”&lt;br /&gt;“what she should say,” “how she should act (even in the feminist&lt;br /&gt;extremes).” The example of the beer commercial, is very much&lt;br /&gt;targeted toward the American female in the sense that “this is how&lt;br /&gt;you should look to be popular.” It is geared toward the “feminist&lt;br /&gt;extreme” in respect to “this is what you should combat and it is the&lt;br /&gt;males fault.” Both examples failing to see the actual picture…. The&lt;br /&gt;manipulation being placed on the supposed feminine movement&lt;br /&gt;itself. Both types of women being very much influenced from that&lt;br /&gt;type of advertisement. In peripheral senses, that advertisement&lt;br /&gt;pays for itself in ways that many people do not even realize. The&lt;br /&gt;peripheral movement of other products not directly related to such&lt;br /&gt;an add is quite substantial, and no one needs to be an advertising&lt;br /&gt;executive to see this. I can safely state that any extreme feminist&lt;br /&gt;who reads this work, will automatically slate me as an “enemy” to&lt;br /&gt;‘her’ movement…. Such is the very same predictability which is&lt;br /&gt;considered within the response effect toward such advertisements as&lt;br /&gt;what I have given as example… and such is as predictable as the&lt;br /&gt;reasons many modern females have relegated themselves a ‘budget’&lt;br /&gt;of ‘mad money.’ Just because something isn’t aimed “at” you,&lt;br /&gt;doesn’t mean you do not respond to it (and predictably so). In that&lt;br /&gt;response, you are just as controlled and predictable as is the target&lt;br /&gt;market… in some respects you even supersede the value of the target&lt;br /&gt;market with your response.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In that regard, it is simply basic marketing knowledge… on a&lt;br /&gt;larger scale and in so many other ways… it happens continuously…..&lt;br /&gt;I would venture that the current version of the feminist movement&lt;br /&gt;has to deal more with reparation of damage from their own&lt;br /&gt;responses, than with attention to any supposed progress. This in&lt;br /&gt;those “peripheral” manners, without even realizing it….. perhaps&lt;br /&gt;even being led to believe that such ‘damage’ is due to some other&lt;br /&gt;course of action….. at times being of the mind with which to even&lt;br /&gt;applaud and cheer at their own loss, thinking it victory.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To avoid being seen as some attack on the feminist&lt;br /&gt;movement…… I will again address the fact that these are all&lt;br /&gt;common aspects of the modern American female, regardless of walk&lt;br /&gt;of life or political orientation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While existing within the atmosphere I have earlier described,&lt;br /&gt;both professionally and personally, in regard to ‘love’&lt;br /&gt;interest/physical attraction…. it is that not even one time did I&lt;br /&gt;experience OR witness a heterosexual female taking the initiative&lt;br /&gt;with any male in that given situation that she may have been&lt;br /&gt;interested in. There were several ‘love’ interests which I was privy&lt;br /&gt;to, but none in which the ‘liberated female’ made the proper&lt;br /&gt;assertion to initiate any given exchange or relationship. This is a&lt;br /&gt;curious double standard. Within a political climate that supposedly&lt;br /&gt;insured the ‘equality’ of the male and female relationship… the male&lt;br /&gt;was still expected to initialize ANY relationship/exchange. This&lt;br /&gt;leans to a curious fact, that much of the modern movement doesn’t&lt;br /&gt;seem to be in the interest of actual equality… freedom of choice and&lt;br /&gt;liberty…. But more for some semblance of control… some façade….&lt;br /&gt;Perhaps even the very cunning invention of an entirely different&lt;br /&gt;target market which has systematically removed the subtle nuances&lt;br /&gt;of several others. As a metaphor…. If the propagation of the&lt;br /&gt;human species would have been left up to the females in that&lt;br /&gt;“modern” situation, the human race would have ceased to exist.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Such doesn’t seem like presence of assertion or capacity with which&lt;br /&gt;to discern between manipulation and empowerment (discerning&lt;br /&gt;between ‘smoke up your ass’ and actual respect)…… much less the&lt;br /&gt;faculty with which to make adult decisions in our modern world. In&lt;br /&gt;fact, in regard to ‘manipulation and empowerment,’ with a&lt;br /&gt;frightening consistency the modern American female opts (many&lt;br /&gt;times knowingly) for being manipulated…. Curiously enough while&lt;br /&gt;still almost demanding to be recognized as ‘empowered’ in some&lt;br /&gt;way. It doesn’t even have to appear sincere….. it’s laughable…. sadly&lt;br /&gt;laughable. I suppose the ‘being manipulated’ provides for that area&lt;br /&gt;of excuse. It doesn’t matter how I look at it… and I have tried to see&lt;br /&gt;it in different ways…. None of that amounts to feminism in a literal&lt;br /&gt;sense… or even basic respect for that matter. But it very much is the&lt;br /&gt;standard within the American society… even more-so in the ranks of&lt;br /&gt;public figures to which ever degree.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another insightful aspect of the misdirection within modern&lt;br /&gt;“feminism,” is one that has already begun to manifest within the&lt;br /&gt;ranks of American children.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is, when I was a child, that children would play house….&lt;br /&gt;now…. there is another facet to playing house, and while it does&lt;br /&gt;allow for more to play in the game… I am personally not too happy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;with the advent of a children’s imaginary character called ‘divorce&lt;br /&gt;lawyer.’ It may be a sign of the times, but that in itself is my point.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A child used to look toward getting married and perhaps having&lt;br /&gt;children “when they grew up” (among other things) and such was&lt;br /&gt;reflected in their games with one another. These days it is a normal&lt;br /&gt;part of that progression to include divorce. Yes, such is a modern&lt;br /&gt;option….but the reality is that it seems to have become a modern&lt;br /&gt;standard.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why then, should men opt for marriage? Especially in the&lt;br /&gt;modern political and legal climate? Why not just go right from high&lt;br /&gt;school or college, to living in a men’s shelter, destitute and&lt;br /&gt;developing a drinking problem. That kind of direction would&lt;br /&gt;satisfy all of the peripherals attached to the modern ‘industry’ of&lt;br /&gt;familial care…… it would in fact, make certain that the government&lt;br /&gt;programs and lawyers influencing this supposed movement were&lt;br /&gt;safely kept in business. It would maintain some facade of&lt;br /&gt;superiority for the divorcé… while providing plenty of support&lt;br /&gt;(influence, mostly for her spending) to help her through her hard&lt;br /&gt;times…. It would in turn support the ‘help’ groups that manage the&lt;br /&gt;divorced men… and of course their ‘drinking problem’ regardless of&lt;br /&gt;the presence of a drinking problem or not…. While, again…&lt;br /&gt;directing their spending habits through influence and&lt;br /&gt;“togetherness.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These things are in no way a part of the desired result of what I&lt;br /&gt;have known as the ‘feminist movement’ for equality….even coupled&lt;br /&gt;with ‘suffrage’….. But in all reality, these things have manifested&lt;br /&gt;themselves very much within the light of that movement. Many&lt;br /&gt;(such as divorce and it’s ‘money making’ aspects) have become quite&lt;br /&gt;the regular in use of the “feminist battle cry” and in wearing the&lt;br /&gt;“feminist badge.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I consider those developments… the modern version of&lt;br /&gt;feminism….. it makes it all the more easy to consider the possibility&lt;br /&gt;of feminism having been nothing more than the single best&lt;br /&gt;marketing ploy ever invented. Still further… that it was probably&lt;br /&gt;invented by a man… a corporate executive of some sort I would&lt;br /&gt;imagine. The modern version molded through Disney.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In support of this a person could conduct their own studies&lt;br /&gt;through questioning different walks of females on whether or not&lt;br /&gt;they are a feminist. From what I gather, most all will adhere to that&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;label regardless of whether they are wearing a bikini or combat&lt;br /&gt;boots.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is no real direction behind it anymore. None past&lt;br /&gt;sensationalism and reactionary tantrum throwing… both of which&lt;br /&gt;are incredible attention getters and there-in very much sought after&lt;br /&gt;for their marketability. There is no assertion within the movement&lt;br /&gt;itself beyond those reactionary aspects. Their seems to be no real&lt;br /&gt;goal in a societal sense beyond the obnoxious (and frail) militant,&lt;br /&gt;misguided touts of some illusive superiority and the flaunting and&lt;br /&gt;suggestion of potential sexual favors. Both being quite mundane&lt;br /&gt;and useless in regard to the structure of society and it’s&lt;br /&gt;maintenance. The extremes of “We have a vagina, and you can’t&lt;br /&gt;have it….” Into “Look at my vagina… if I get what I want you can&lt;br /&gt;have it… but don’t tell.” Which is basically “I’m not smart enough&lt;br /&gt;to be my own pimp” in one extreme and “You can do me if it’s o.k.&lt;br /&gt;with my pimp/corporate pimp” in the other. Again, both of which&lt;br /&gt;are incredible advertising schemes….. but nothing even near what I&lt;br /&gt;knew that movement to be about.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you mention the possibility of child birth to the modern&lt;br /&gt;“female,” you may as well be suggesting a dose of the black plague to&lt;br /&gt;them…. This is another aspect of modern females that I don’t&lt;br /&gt;understand… especially those that claim to be supporting some&lt;br /&gt;feminine agenda. I may be mistaken, but the beauty and power of&lt;br /&gt;having the ability to gestate and give birth is very much what the&lt;br /&gt;celebration of feminism is about…. Unless, I suppose… it is now&lt;br /&gt;about having the marketability of a two bit whore. Again, I may be&lt;br /&gt;mistaken… but if (as seems to be in the modern day) the basis of&lt;br /&gt;feminine pride (feminism) is possession of a vaginal orifice for the&lt;br /&gt;purpose of pleasure, technology already has them beat…. And most&lt;br /&gt;people with a penis also have hands.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The idea of forsaking the very reasons that being a female is (used&lt;br /&gt;to be it seems) a very worthy existence in my opinion, is beyond&lt;br /&gt;absurd and very much the atmospheric change that I am referring&lt;br /&gt;to. What part of the idea of feminism does being a whore fall into?&lt;br /&gt;What part of feminism does forsaking the very act of being female&lt;br /&gt;fall under? When a person considers it, such is an abomination of&lt;br /&gt;the very movement…. Apparently forgetting what it is about being&lt;br /&gt;female… especially an attractive female, which truly makes them&lt;br /&gt;attractive at that “primal level,” being the prospect of procreation&lt;br /&gt;whether it is a conscious thought or not. The movement of&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;feminism was very much to insure the equality in that power of&lt;br /&gt;choice as well as the celebration of that very unique power……..&lt;br /&gt;….except of course for all of those brilliant marketing aspects so&lt;br /&gt;evident in the modern version, which are far too many to go into in&lt;br /&gt;this short piece.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A lesbian is no more a feminist as is a jack ass in that respect.&lt;br /&gt;Nor is a homosexual male, though both are widely seen as “friends”&lt;br /&gt;of that movement. Both commonly seen as very much a part of that&lt;br /&gt;movement in our modern day. I have personally witnessed the fact&lt;br /&gt;that modern American females in a larger percentage, will trust the&lt;br /&gt;opinion of a homosexual male before they will even confide in a&lt;br /&gt;heterosexual male. In my opinion, both examples act more as&lt;br /&gt;influences misguiding actual feminism here in America. It is&lt;br /&gt;laughable that the ‘conservative’ females will immediately deny&lt;br /&gt;this….. as will many of the “liberal females,” but it is again only&lt;br /&gt;another aspect of the modern American female…. It occurs under&lt;br /&gt;the guise of “equality” and acceptance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It seems that ‘feminism’ has been turned into having a meaning&lt;br /&gt;of ‘use for all that you can get.’ The contradictions within it are&lt;br /&gt;glaring to say the least. It very much has taken the place of a natural&lt;br /&gt;need for assertion within the American female population. There is&lt;br /&gt;apparently no need to go after something that you may have an&lt;br /&gt;interest in, as ‘something manufactured will most certainly be along&lt;br /&gt;any minute….’ Seems to be the over all attitude….&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;…..And lay low all you productive men out there….. you not only&lt;br /&gt;have to deal with the impending divorce (or other ways of which to&lt;br /&gt;relieve you of a monthly check) but as well the prospect of having to&lt;br /&gt;appease the “friends” of this new form of pseudo feminism… which&lt;br /&gt;are those I have described in which the American female does&lt;br /&gt;confide….. both having nothing to do with the idea of equality or&lt;br /&gt;feminism. Both being a very large reason for the lack of assertion in&lt;br /&gt;the American female….. assertion which a person would think&lt;br /&gt;should accompany such a political and social freedom as being a&lt;br /&gt;feminist in the modern day… which most every one of them will&lt;br /&gt;attest to being… but as for the suggested assertion? It is no where to&lt;br /&gt;be found, unless it’s in a television show or commercial.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Further in the example of ‘productivity’ being targeted for&lt;br /&gt;‘harvest’ in that manner, is the dysfunction which it puts upon the&lt;br /&gt;whole of society. It creates a ‘down syndrome’ of sorts in a social&lt;br /&gt;sense. A Purposeful lack of interest in participation at any level….&lt;br /&gt;This may appear to be an effective social controlling mechanism…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;but the damage it does to society takes decades to repair… if at all.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It likens to the despotic and tyrannical governments of centuries&lt;br /&gt;ago… without the overt oppressions. It in effect, gets people to do it&lt;br /&gt;to themselves…. To essentially ‘kill themselves’ to keep from ‘being&lt;br /&gt;killed.’ To starve themselves of our moments in existence, to keep&lt;br /&gt;from being starved of them. It is a reverberation and by product of&lt;br /&gt;the larger body of manipulation that is going on. The hypnotism&lt;br /&gt;that quite factually rules the lives of most American women within&lt;br /&gt;all class’ in our modern day…. And mostly from the direction of&lt;br /&gt;televised media. In a comical note, that very same hypnotism is&lt;br /&gt;really the only form of equality in modern America, though it is&lt;br /&gt;used to promote the illusion of different social classes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This illusion is then in turn used to promote “inter-class” rivalry&lt;br /&gt;of sorts…. It is used to inspire what would be “social climbers” to&lt;br /&gt;embark on a useless, placeless and fabricated journey… all because&lt;br /&gt;of their manipulated perception and small minded self&lt;br /&gt;centeredness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is true, that due to this form of social hypnotization, that&lt;br /&gt;much of these insecurities and ill feelings are well beyond their own&lt;br /&gt;control….. but only in so far as they allow them to be without&lt;br /&gt;making the re4alization of their lack of assertion and personal&lt;br /&gt;decision making responsibility.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You may scoff at the idea of “hypnotism” at work in this&lt;br /&gt;instance….. but all I need to do to illustrate it, is have you realize&lt;br /&gt;how “under” you are, each time you find yourself humming a&lt;br /&gt;jingle… or the ‘hook’ of a popular song. That is quite factually the&lt;br /&gt;result of hypnotism. Factually, any sort of stimulation can be&lt;br /&gt;classified as hypnotism, even and especially visual stimulation&lt;br /&gt;though audible seems to get the greater response…. Especially that&lt;br /&gt;which gets immediate and/or extended reaction and response. It&lt;br /&gt;happens everyday whether it is intentional or not… most times in&lt;br /&gt;regard to media and adverts, it most certainly is intended. Some&lt;br /&gt;people are more susceptible to various forms than are others.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A domesticated animal is trained in very much the realm of&lt;br /&gt;hypnotism… in various forms and levels. Usually using all of the&lt;br /&gt;areas we are stimulated through- which are the sense’s; sight, smell,&lt;br /&gt;taste, hearing, touch. In my belief it is that such reaction and&lt;br /&gt;response are the sole (initial) purpose of the senses…. Then beyond,&lt;br /&gt;as reference places to reassert those reactions, actions, responses (of&lt;br /&gt;which memory is the topical reference)…. Though this does not&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;mean that I believe the majority of it’s uses in our modern day, are&lt;br /&gt;their exact purpose. Factually, in my belief it is that these things&lt;br /&gt;should hardly ever have been manipulated in that overt sense…&lt;br /&gt;more that within the mechanism of their existence and natural&lt;br /&gt;purpose, we have happened upon a way in which to extract a desired&lt;br /&gt;result from a stimulant…..&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I do not believe that hypnotism itself is necessarily a bad thing.&lt;br /&gt;In fact, it is very much part of our natural course of existence….&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Memory itself is simply as result of those imprints from stimulation&lt;br /&gt;in my opinion. It is the uses of it beyond a natural course, that&lt;br /&gt;there-in become the “ill effect,” and especially in long term abuses of&lt;br /&gt;that natural occurrence. It becomes like scarification….&lt;br /&gt;Numbness… void…. This is much of the effect of what I see&lt;br /&gt;happening to the modern American female on many levels. A loss&lt;br /&gt;of self through that scarification… through becoming without their&lt;br /&gt;own course of experience in life through those abuses….. and for&lt;br /&gt;some reason it seems that most females are more susceptible to&lt;br /&gt;those stimulation abuses… and in that more susceptible to the&lt;br /&gt;dangers of becoming void…. A mental, metaphysical scar which may&lt;br /&gt;even manifest as some semblance of personality in the form of a&lt;br /&gt;series of preconceived “programming,” stimulation…. though it is,&lt;br /&gt;that they are actually void of any natural course of their own…..&lt;br /&gt;simply flesh and blood scars in that sense….. nothing more than a&lt;br /&gt;moving series of psychological associations….. reacting from one&lt;br /&gt;stimulation into the next…. And most times in a reinforced manner&lt;br /&gt;through reward of some sort; “A compliment on some useless,&lt;br /&gt;shining piece of cheap jewelry- or expensive jewelry for that matter,&lt;br /&gt;which really holds no value beyond what has been placed upon it by&lt;br /&gt;someone else- because they happened to have filled some response&lt;br /&gt;that was expected of them.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Think about that for a moment. A diamond or a small piece of&lt;br /&gt;busted concrete can very much hold the same amount of value in&lt;br /&gt;that sense. It isn’t as though a diamond actually serves a purpose&lt;br /&gt;beyond being glittery…. And it isn’t as though they are rare. It isn’t&lt;br /&gt;as though concrete couldn’t be molded into ‘diamond like’ shapes&lt;br /&gt;and mounted on rings and necklaces….. why then, isn’t a small&lt;br /&gt;piece of shaped concrete on a ring seen as being as valuable as is a&lt;br /&gt;cut stone?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Firstly, I think it is because of that susceptibility I have been&lt;br /&gt;describing…. Then further because of that lack of personal&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;11&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;assertion…. capacity (for what ever reason, most being that abuse of&lt;br /&gt;the senses)….. that “need” for reassurance and excuse.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Such displays of ornate jewelry are very much examples of that&lt;br /&gt;ease of manipulation within the existences of the American&lt;br /&gt;female…. And are very much indicators of the overall commonality&lt;br /&gt;of a perceived social hierarchy… when in all reality, none holds any&lt;br /&gt;more a position than does the next in that sense. All being just as&lt;br /&gt;easily influenced from the very same stimulations. All associating&lt;br /&gt;such displays with something they call love…. Which is unlike&lt;br /&gt;anything I have ever experienced to be love. Their version of it, is&lt;br /&gt;very much as Iggy Pop had stated; “That’s like hypnotizing&lt;br /&gt;chickens.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have actually hypnotized chickens, there are several ways to&lt;br /&gt;accomplish it… and he is correct in allot of ways. It is just a bit&lt;br /&gt;disheartening to know that what most American females know&lt;br /&gt;about love, is associated in such manners, through the abuse of the&lt;br /&gt;very normal paths in which fabulous relationships can take root and&lt;br /&gt;bloom.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When a person puts thought to it… the very reason that such&lt;br /&gt;leanings are developed through such abuse, is because of their&lt;br /&gt;natural existence being perverted. Again this harkens to the very&lt;br /&gt;normal, natural modes of selection in human relationships. At the&lt;br /&gt;very base of such process, is the basic drive to procreate… it isn’t as&lt;br /&gt;though it is a choice at that level. Both the male and female are&lt;br /&gt;subconsciously seeking adequate mates… the basic difference is that&lt;br /&gt;these false indicators (applied/suggested worth, value) have taken&lt;br /&gt;the place of very real indicators of what each is actually seeking in&lt;br /&gt;the other. This goes beyond physical beauty…. But is not limited to&lt;br /&gt;exclude physical prowess.. as is readily evident in the mechanics of&lt;br /&gt;these manipulations….. in fact, many of the distractions have been&lt;br /&gt;devised to compensate for other places of lacking within each&lt;br /&gt;perspective… to draw attention and focus away from the entire&lt;br /&gt;picture, for the immediate and very flimsy forms of satisfaction…..&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In my opinion, with this insight, it is that I feel the American&lt;br /&gt;females assertion has been purposefully and systematically stunted….&lt;br /&gt;Retarded and removed. This spans the entire spectrum of genre of&lt;br /&gt;American females. It is consistent in each walk and example of&lt;br /&gt;them…. Regardless of what they claim to hold as valuable&lt;br /&gt;outwardly… they all still adhere to some form of that false&lt;br /&gt;hierarchical structure…. And doing so in the most topical of ways.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Their focus has been drawn away from “managing their personal&lt;br /&gt;existence, their actual interests, and those of their off spring” to how&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;12&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;such feigned attempts at such happen to compare with someone&lt;br /&gt;down the street. The actual valuable things in life, are forgone for&lt;br /&gt;the manufactured façade.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I could stand, clad in simple clothing which I stitched myself…..&lt;br /&gt;holding title and deed to fertile ground in one hand, and seed in&lt;br /&gt;the other, with the talent and know how to flourish… next to&lt;br /&gt;someone with a brand new suit and a pair of diamond earrings&lt;br /&gt;(which amounts to “a box of rocks” in my opinion), and be seen as&lt;br /&gt;less potential than the individual depending upon the opinions of&lt;br /&gt;others to lend value to that which he “offers” as substance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This example is not meant to say that a new suit or simple&lt;br /&gt;luxuries are wrong…. Only that they are now seen as superior in the&lt;br /&gt;eyes of the American female, to those things which actually provide&lt;br /&gt;and beget value…… the individual which sports the new suit and&lt;br /&gt;diamonds is almost always entirely dependent upon&lt;br /&gt;someone/something else to give him credence… credibility in his&lt;br /&gt;existence. Thus the female that consistently makes that choice has&lt;br /&gt;already forgone any of their own assertion regardless of her walk of&lt;br /&gt;life. They are consistently trading that which can actually produce,&lt;br /&gt;for that which is dependent upon manufactured “image” of virility.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Even the ‘masters’ diploma in our modern day, is often times&lt;br /&gt;nothing more than another manufactured ‘image’ of virility.&lt;br /&gt;Depending almost entirely on the established structure of that&lt;br /&gt;façade for it’s semblance of productivity and worth. I know people&lt;br /&gt;in our modern day with college level educations, that could not&lt;br /&gt;perform within the confines of their professed specialty without a&lt;br /&gt;“crib sheet” of sorts…. Some sort of script in that sense. No matter&lt;br /&gt;how you look at this, it in no way equates to value…. much less&lt;br /&gt;virility… but it is consistently the standard for these types of&lt;br /&gt;comparative choices. It is as if, all a person must do these days, is&lt;br /&gt;carry out a deception to a certain point, and all else within the rest&lt;br /&gt;of their lives becomes a scripted course. This is even seen as&lt;br /&gt;security…. But again, what definition of security are American&lt;br /&gt;females reading? Dependence to the level of slavery upon someone&lt;br /&gt;else and/or an organization is in no way security.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes. It is very much like hypnotizing chickens….. AND getting&lt;br /&gt;them to lock themselves in those really small cages that the animal&lt;br /&gt;rights people are always complaining about….. then having them&lt;br /&gt;label it as success and security… promoting it even.. flaunting it as if&lt;br /&gt;it were some achievement.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;13&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What kind of achievement is it to have turned a very viable social&lt;br /&gt;movement meant to liberate and enlighten… meant to enrich the&lt;br /&gt;lives of all…. into a self herding, self imprisoning machine of topical&lt;br /&gt;hypnosis, propaganda?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Having spent some time in brothels as a mid-late teen (as a&lt;br /&gt;‘patron’ of the ‘art’), I can see many areas of comparison in the&lt;br /&gt;modern social/corporate structure, to those “stables.” While it is&lt;br /&gt;though, that they chose that profession… I have never heard them&lt;br /&gt;(or anyone else) claim it as a superior or overly productive career&lt;br /&gt;path… it was always just something that they fell into as a way to&lt;br /&gt;make money. I would guess that they opted for this path due to&lt;br /&gt;having been distracted from their own in ways that I have&lt;br /&gt;described…. Many professing the position of never wanting to bear&lt;br /&gt;children.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why then is it, that the very same dynamic is more and more&lt;br /&gt;the standard in modern society beyond the reasons which I have&lt;br /&gt;illustrated so far? Why then is it that all must be effected from the&lt;br /&gt;same type of decision making.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A person could say, that much of this direction is as result of the&lt;br /&gt;mentioned “not wanting to bear children.” But then how much of&lt;br /&gt;that is as result of those other influences on their decision making?&lt;br /&gt;I can not see ANY female that could honestly say that she never&lt;br /&gt;entertained the thought of having her own child/children. I would&lt;br /&gt;wager fortunes on the fact, that a larger percentage of females&lt;br /&gt;continue to entertain the thought even after they have made the&lt;br /&gt;decision not to bear children. They will at least think about what&lt;br /&gt;difference it would have been in their lives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another aspect of this ‘decision’ not to have children… is&lt;br /&gt;resulting in a very strange outcome on the larger social scene…. In&lt;br /&gt;that choice of direction, somehow it is that children are still being&lt;br /&gt;born at an alarming rate…. Not so much alarming because of the&lt;br /&gt;number of them… but more that it is happening in social areas&lt;br /&gt;which are ill prepared to care for those amounts of children, which&lt;br /&gt;then puts that responsibility on other organizations including&lt;br /&gt;government programs- all usually funded from government&lt;br /&gt;funds.….. so in effect… those who choose not to have children of&lt;br /&gt;their own… eventually have to support them anyhow through their&lt;br /&gt;tax dollar…. And have to do so without having any other influence&lt;br /&gt;on the direction of their lives. Most times lives that have been born&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;14&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;into situations which bode ill of their future anyhow. Such would&lt;br /&gt;seem to entirely negate the financial reasoning for abstaining from&lt;br /&gt;motherhood.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What this does, is creates a type of social erosion in many ways.&lt;br /&gt;It promotes the use of unwanted children to secure a larger portion&lt;br /&gt;of government funds – this even occurring in the ranks of people&lt;br /&gt;involved in government programs to insure their own well being as&lt;br /&gt;well as those on an individual level. Thus costing individuals and&lt;br /&gt;society more monetarily in many ways, than any expense of a child’s&lt;br /&gt;positive upbringing- as per each example. Those who have claimed&lt;br /&gt;not to want children…. And have found themselves in a professional&lt;br /&gt;atmosphere as result of their series of decisions…. Are not only&lt;br /&gt;suffering from a lack of their own assertion in regard to their very&lt;br /&gt;real wants…. But as well, are cumulatively carrying the expense of&lt;br /&gt;children that they never wanted to begin with. Further, they have to&lt;br /&gt;help to incur any other expenses that these children may cause as&lt;br /&gt;they become ‘victims’ of their given situation in regard to escalating&lt;br /&gt;crime levels. So in that respect, the facade is really hiding more&lt;br /&gt;than the wasted true potential of being a modern American female.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is hiding the innumerable expenses which the false version of&lt;br /&gt;female independence is helping to create.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beyond the monetary aspects are those which are another result&lt;br /&gt;of such a lopsided social mechanism… this aspect being the future.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The corrosive qualities of this direction on society are vast. The&lt;br /&gt;element of over population within areas lacking in opportunity and&lt;br /&gt;guidance is not a very good insurance for prosperity of tomorrows.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This creates an involuntary social movement which again, keeps&lt;br /&gt;itself from progressing…. It invents it’s own obstacles while it acts in&lt;br /&gt;a destructive manner to the whole of society… and further&lt;br /&gt;perpetuates the façade through maintaining a public opinion of&lt;br /&gt;social classing/hierarchical placement.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Within this…. who is it that is going to be making the decisions&lt;br /&gt;tomorrow? What are they going to be basing those decisions on?&lt;br /&gt;What part of this destructive erosion is the “power of woman?”&lt;br /&gt;Which part of this cycle illustrates the superiority of ‘feminism?”&lt;br /&gt;Especially in utilizing such a word as ‘feminism’ to illustrate and&lt;br /&gt;suggest very much a lack of feminine qualities and attributes within&lt;br /&gt;the female existence. Twisting that word and it’s meaning to put&lt;br /&gt;forward the image of false independence…. The likeness of forsaking&lt;br /&gt;all things feminine to posture in a very masculine roll.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;15&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I realize that there are those who are going to take a tact and&lt;br /&gt;angle in regard to this work of trying to paint me as some ‘anti-fem.’&lt;br /&gt;This couldn’t be farther from the truth. I also realize that there are&lt;br /&gt;those who are going to try and state that I am suggesting the sole roll&lt;br /&gt;of women is to bear children.... and be subservient…. to be ‘barefoot&lt;br /&gt;and pregnant.” Again, couldn’t be farther from the truth. What I&lt;br /&gt;am attempting to address here, is the fact that within that very&lt;br /&gt;predictable reaction, is the evidence and substance which support&lt;br /&gt;my explorations here-in. It is no-where feminine or ‘equal’ to utilize&lt;br /&gt;such a movement for nothing more than posturing as a male roll.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Even further, to utilize such a movement to exclude the very unique&lt;br /&gt;feminine qualities of the power of child birth. And further yet, even&lt;br /&gt;less feminine to try and exclude the male roll from that process.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Somewhere, it is, that the word feminist became a synonym for&lt;br /&gt;‘intolerable bitch.’ That isn’t the type of feminist’s or effective,&lt;br /&gt;productive working actual feminism, that I as a person have&lt;br /&gt;experienced and witnessed in my life- save for those false imitations&lt;br /&gt;I have mentioned. It is very much a product of the glamorized&lt;br /&gt;version which dictates the emulation of the stereo typical male&lt;br /&gt;‘business man’ and the scripted antithesis of said, being the ‘granola&lt;br /&gt;crunch,’ ‘Tuff Grrl” characters as substance and example of&lt;br /&gt;successful feminist activity…. These really are no different from one&lt;br /&gt;another in the respect that they both forsake the very essence of&lt;br /&gt;feminism…. Even further, opt to try and avoid the area of feminine&lt;br /&gt;for the posturing of the manufactured imagery of said. Both being&lt;br /&gt;collared on the leash of American corporate dictation and doing&lt;br /&gt;nothing without permission there-in. Especially in regard to&lt;br /&gt;procreation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have found from studies I have performed, that it is much more&lt;br /&gt;likely for a female executive to go out and get ‘knocked up’ on a one&lt;br /&gt;night stand, than it is for that professional female to make the&lt;br /&gt;conscious decision of having a child/children without the support&lt;br /&gt;of a husband/significant other. This I find curious in many&lt;br /&gt;respects. The first being that the professed independence of the&lt;br /&gt;American female executive is very much false.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In regard to the given example of probability for reproduction…&lt;br /&gt;much of it has to do with the hierarchical corporate chain. Sure it&lt;br /&gt;is that the law dictates her right to have children and enjoy&lt;br /&gt;compensation from her professional workplace with which to&lt;br /&gt;accommodate that process… but such law in no way states that the&lt;br /&gt;inter-corporate influences will condone such. It is harder for a&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;16&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;professional female to choose to have a child than it is if she were&lt;br /&gt;out with someone and accidentally got pregnant. For some reason,&lt;br /&gt;the corporate atmosphere does not welcome such decision, but will&lt;br /&gt;support whole heartedly any opportunity to seem as though they are&lt;br /&gt;contributing to assisting with resolving a social problem. All of this&lt;br /&gt;under the guise of modern feminism…. ‘helping’ the professional&lt;br /&gt;female to choose not to have children because she is ‘independent’&lt;br /&gt;and does not need such ‘baggage’ to ensnare her and deprive her of&lt;br /&gt;her womanhood. It is definitely ‘something,’ but feminist, it is not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is too selfish to be classified as feminism… too void of insight and&lt;br /&gt;direction beyond a ‘hand to mouth’ mentality in the ‘here and&lt;br /&gt;now.’ Maybe it is just a new, more complicated type of ‘hooker?’ It&lt;br /&gt;has all of the attributes…. The drive for monetary wealth and the&lt;br /&gt;lack of consideration for self (or anything else) as to how that wealth&lt;br /&gt;is obtained…. mostly without any idea of what it is that lends value&lt;br /&gt;to what it is they seek.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While I am addressing the modern professional American&lt;br /&gt;female, I should again touch on the aspects of seeing that fabricated&lt;br /&gt;façade as indication of virility. Laughably really… perhaps it is based&lt;br /&gt;on familiarity within the same type of ‘drive?’ Seeing those material&lt;br /&gt;things which have been deemed valuable as a priority in their&lt;br /&gt;premise of existence. Some sort of social status….&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don’t get me wrong here, I am in no way implying that people&lt;br /&gt;should have to exist with nothing of value within society…. It is just&lt;br /&gt;a very strange dynamic and development within our social structure&lt;br /&gt;that such scripted methods for existing are seen as normal and are&lt;br /&gt;actually prioritized in regard to importance in such choices as&lt;br /&gt;mating.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is nothing more to attaining those accoutrements than&lt;br /&gt;placement… really…. And in most cases an extreme lack of a sense of&lt;br /&gt;self based highly on the reasons I have already explained. It is to a&lt;br /&gt;point that any with the ability to attain even moderate success&lt;br /&gt;without such dependence on some other thing, are targeted and&lt;br /&gt;socially outcast…. This among the female rank as well. That is&lt;br /&gt;correct. Those with the capability to independently fill those needs&lt;br /&gt;which are seen as virile and sought at a level which is hard to&lt;br /&gt;explain, are thrown out of society. This basically because it does not&lt;br /&gt;bode well for those within the façade to actually have to try and&lt;br /&gt;compete with any that do have the capacity to excel and provide in&lt;br /&gt;ways those others cannot. It is really backwards when you consider&lt;br /&gt;that the women which should be in contention for those with such&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;17&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;capacity, are usually used through their false political stances… to in&lt;br /&gt;fact remove from themselves the very opportunity of accessing&lt;br /&gt;anything except that mechanical façade…. Most times in the name&lt;br /&gt;of ‘Feminism.’ It is very much that the more likely you are to be an&lt;br /&gt;outright moron, the more likely it is that you will find a mate. It is&lt;br /&gt;a rather interesting social dynamic. Again very much destructive of&lt;br /&gt;itself and much else through it’s effect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another interesting aspect of the modern female being a ‘tool’ is&lt;br /&gt;in how easily it is that ‘feminism’ is used as a weapon of sorts against&lt;br /&gt;things and for purposes that have nothing to do with being a&lt;br /&gt;modern female. It is as if it is just some fodder to gum up the&lt;br /&gt;political works for anything else that happens to be someone’s&lt;br /&gt;target.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A recent issue within society has been the legalization of&lt;br /&gt;‘gay/lesbian’ marriages. This has nothing to do with being a&lt;br /&gt;modern female in the sense of ‘feminism’ but it is that feminism&lt;br /&gt;was utilized and dragged into this political front, as a main platform&lt;br /&gt;for many of those involved. Many of whom are the type of modern&lt;br /&gt;female associating themselves to feminism in ways I have already&lt;br /&gt;addressed. This ‘political movement’ was itself utilized to target the&lt;br /&gt;church and certain specific factions of it. Any person that truly only&lt;br /&gt;intended to achieve the legal ability for same sex union, would not&lt;br /&gt;have needed to utilize a platform of feminism OR targeted the&lt;br /&gt;church.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is a political movement that holds none of the beliefs which&lt;br /&gt;are widely held within the church… a belief in ‘God’ for instance…&lt;br /&gt;and especially the belief of such unions being ‘unholy.’&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If it is that such a movement only wanted the legal ability to be&lt;br /&gt;recognized as a marriage, why then the battle with someone else’s&lt;br /&gt;belief structure, and further, why the use of yet another political&lt;br /&gt;movement having nothing to do with either- being actual&lt;br /&gt;feminism… with which to do damage to the institution of the&lt;br /&gt;‘church’ and leverage the decisions of government.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From my perspective… if it were that I were beginning such a&lt;br /&gt;movement…. I would want to achieve it in as efficient a manner as&lt;br /&gt;possible… that means as few peripheral ‘fronts’ as possible. We exist&lt;br /&gt;within a country and governmental structure where a person or&lt;br /&gt;group of people can have their own beliefs. The proper course for&lt;br /&gt;achieving this ‘legalized same sex marriage,’ in my opinion… would&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;18&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;have been through ‘legal’ channels…. There is/was really no need&lt;br /&gt;for embattlement with any other entity. To achieve the legal status&lt;br /&gt;of those unions was/is the goal. Where is the need for useless hang&lt;br /&gt;ups with other organizations? Those other organizations DO NOT&lt;br /&gt;have to agree with the views of any other political movement. It&lt;br /&gt;isn’t necessary to combat them for the stated purpose and goal. A&lt;br /&gt;legal union in the eyes of the ‘law’ has nothing to do with trying to&lt;br /&gt;force someone else’s faith to accept you or your movement. Much&lt;br /&gt;less utilizing an entirely un related political movement to attain it.&lt;br /&gt;The damage incurred to the entire system with such frivolous&lt;br /&gt;political squabbling far outweighs anything anyone could have&lt;br /&gt;gained… except perhaps those with ends set on the destruction of&lt;br /&gt;the mechanism which would and does allow for such freedom of&lt;br /&gt;choice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I personally would have set it as a first goal to achieve common&lt;br /&gt;law marriage as the standard for that movement…. A type of&lt;br /&gt;common law marriage augmented slightly to accommodate the&lt;br /&gt;specific needs of same sex couples. I would have first won the right&lt;br /&gt;to have any existing couple which qualified for the standards&lt;br /&gt;dictating common law marriage with those augmentations to come&lt;br /&gt;forward and claim it in that fashion. I would have focused&lt;br /&gt;politically on that specific task. To achieve a legal union within the&lt;br /&gt;eyes of the law. Such is what our system here in the United States is&lt;br /&gt;meant to be. The peripheral focus on trying to force those of a&lt;br /&gt;different religious faith to recognize same sex marriage within their&lt;br /&gt;own faith, is absurd and an abuse of the system which is there for&lt;br /&gt;productive progress in using it in an attempt at destructive measures&lt;br /&gt;for what ever political reasons.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In those measures of waging such peripheral political battles…. It&lt;br /&gt;is nothing more than making yourself and your movement the dupe&lt;br /&gt;of someone else’s ‘cause,’ what ever it may actually be… in this case,&lt;br /&gt;I would say it were an organization with the intention of damaging&lt;br /&gt;the very mechanism which makes it possible to achieve such&lt;br /&gt;freedom of choice AND efficient co-existence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In having drawn the ‘feminist’ movement into such a foray… it&lt;br /&gt;has effectively clouded and shackled the actual usefulness and self&lt;br /&gt;preservation of the actual ‘feminist’ existence. It really isn’t more&lt;br /&gt;complicated than in a time and tactic of creating a stampede to&lt;br /&gt;assail the encampment of your ‘enemies,’ destroying anything of use&lt;br /&gt;or value in such a ploy. Destroying even the very structures of that&lt;br /&gt;which has allowed the leeway of your own movement. Sadly&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;19&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;enough, in such a tactic is as well, the evidence of a lack of focus on&lt;br /&gt;the professed goal and political achievement… and is quite&lt;br /&gt;indicative of ulterior motive. The insistence of such a movement&lt;br /&gt;trying to force it’s acceptance in the eyes of some other organization&lt;br /&gt;is appalling. It is a symptom of social illness… especially at the level&lt;br /&gt;of contradiction in it’s means. In attempting to force such an&lt;br /&gt;acceptance, is lacking in it’s own focus and motive…. It is signifying&lt;br /&gt;that it is very much the tool and dupe of some other intent…. It is&lt;br /&gt;signifying motives beyond it’s own control. In that, it is signifying&lt;br /&gt;it’s dependence upon some other motive/means, there-in relegating&lt;br /&gt;itself to nothing more than fodder for some other ends…. losing all&lt;br /&gt;importance of it’s own goals…. ‘sickening’ itself, before it even&lt;br /&gt;begins. It is further signifying the importance of that which they&lt;br /&gt;claim is of no importance to them…. Justifying their ‘enemies’&lt;br /&gt;through placing them in positions of such consideration. There is&lt;br /&gt;no need for any that seek ‘legal union in the eyes of the law’ to seek&lt;br /&gt;to force recognition of that ‘legal union’ in the eyes of an&lt;br /&gt;organization and faith which is entirely unrelated to their&lt;br /&gt;movement. That is indicative of ill motive. That has nothing to do&lt;br /&gt;with the professed goal of equality. It is an indicator of the want for&lt;br /&gt;acceptance in something that doesn’t have to accept them under the&lt;br /&gt;same laws which would recognize their ‘legal union.’&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This isn’t to say that the advent of ‘gay marriage’ is a detriment&lt;br /&gt;to the feminine movement or course…. It is to say that in allowing&lt;br /&gt;themselves to be duped into some cause which is firstly, misguided&lt;br /&gt;(utilized as weaponry against some unrelated institution) and then&lt;br /&gt;further of no interest to their own movement…. Is to in fact, weaken&lt;br /&gt;their own position. This is usually done under the guise of ‘unity’&lt;br /&gt;and ‘equality’ when really it is the antithesis of both.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is very much a predictable course, that somehow the&lt;br /&gt;movement of ‘feminism’ will soon be associated with the recent&lt;br /&gt;persecution of those that use tobacco products. It has already worn&lt;br /&gt;the badge of combat against the use of distilled spirits….. and for&lt;br /&gt;some reason has been politically aligned with organizations&lt;br /&gt;regarding the abstinence of substance use…. But curiously enough…&lt;br /&gt;it is only certain substances which qualify as ‘deplorable’ in the eyes&lt;br /&gt;of the modern feminist….. there are several other substances, many&lt;br /&gt;of which are quite new to the human chemical structure and make&lt;br /&gt;up, which are readily accepted and even promoted by these&lt;br /&gt;‘activists,’ most of which are much more dangerous and immediately&lt;br /&gt;a physical danger to the human body. It is more than a curiosity&lt;br /&gt;that natural substances which have been associated with the human&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;20&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;being for centuries, would suddenly be seen as a danger to the&lt;br /&gt;degree that ‘feminists’ would champion the cause of eradicating&lt;br /&gt;them…. All the while in support of the use of other, synthetic&lt;br /&gt;substances which are made up of, and contain very harmful&lt;br /&gt;chemicals to the natural existence of humans.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The very same ‘pseudo-feminist’ which would persecute someone&lt;br /&gt;smoking a natural cigar, are the same that promote the use of&lt;br /&gt;various chemicals in various ways for the purpose of ‘beautification’&lt;br /&gt;among other things.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another interesting point in this ‘line’ of what is acceptable and&lt;br /&gt;what isn’t…. are those products that have long entrenched&lt;br /&gt;themselves in society without ever having even been evaluated as to&lt;br /&gt;the level of their dangers. There is a hormone still in wide use&lt;br /&gt;which is derived from horse urine, for the purpose of treating&lt;br /&gt;menopausal symptoms. This ‘drug/substance’ has never undergone&lt;br /&gt;any sort of actual evaluation pertaining to it’s safety in use. No one&lt;br /&gt;really knows what exactly the effects of it are on the human&lt;br /&gt;existence and molecular make up. It was derived and designed in&lt;br /&gt;early Nazi Germany… the mid/late 1930’s. It was introduced and&lt;br /&gt;widely used at a time and fast enough that no one ever bothered to&lt;br /&gt;research it further. Not so coincidently, it is very hard to find any&lt;br /&gt;actual information pertaining to it even today…. any study that&lt;br /&gt;produces ill results in regard to it, is quickly ‘buried’ and defamed as&lt;br /&gt;inaccurate. It is widely known to be a very probable cause of severe&lt;br /&gt;types of cancer…. but such is ignored and purposefully so. Many of&lt;br /&gt;the verbal defenses used to protect it are based around a reactionary&lt;br /&gt;response of accusations in regard to ‘assaulting the sciences.’ As if it&lt;br /&gt;were ‘scientifically established’ while in all reality, it has been&lt;br /&gt;scientifically ignored…. Kept ‘hush.’ What then, could be the&lt;br /&gt;reasoning for this beyond some corporate affiliation? Some ‘market&lt;br /&gt;share?’ With modern science and technology, so many more&lt;br /&gt;options are available which are far safer… and KNOWN as to their&lt;br /&gt;effect and potential side effects.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These are the same type of ‘feminists’ which respond to the call&lt;br /&gt;of politically combating something such as tobacco use.&lt;br /&gt;My mother smoked cigarettes for the full term of her pregnancy&lt;br /&gt;with me. I was born totally healthy. Have only been considerably ill&lt;br /&gt;a very small amount of times…. And in that, nothing more than the&lt;br /&gt;regular child hood illness…. Pox, and a flu. I have never been&lt;br /&gt;‘sickly’ in my life. As much as the modern society touts the dangers&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;21&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;of tobacco (while hiding their use of much more dangerous and&lt;br /&gt;NOT natural substances), a person would think that the human&lt;br /&gt;race would have already died out….. This isn’t to say that I am&lt;br /&gt;promoting the use of tobacco… only that such a ‘corporate/political’&lt;br /&gt;movement is another example of using the modern pseudo-feminist&lt;br /&gt;for the corporate entities own ends. The use of tobacco isn’t&lt;br /&gt;necessarily the danger here…. The health risk in using tobacco is&lt;br /&gt;more in becoming a target in some corporate war for a larger share&lt;br /&gt;of existing commerce.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tobacco and distilled spirits have been a part of human existence&lt;br /&gt;since it began as far as anyone knows. The process of producing&lt;br /&gt;such products has been very much a part of living for centuries….&lt;br /&gt;Very much more so than in just the imbibing aspects of them. The&lt;br /&gt;actual methods (traditionally) are very much symbolic of the process&lt;br /&gt;of life itself in many ways. It is only with the advent of our modern&lt;br /&gt;society, that the side effects such as cancer have been so&lt;br /&gt;pronounced. I think that is more than coincidence. But again, the&lt;br /&gt;real point here, is how easily the pseudo-feminist movement has&lt;br /&gt;been duped into waging political battles that have nothing to do&lt;br /&gt;with being feminist beyond someone’s corporate ploy in utilizing&lt;br /&gt;the ‘body’ of such topical beliefs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In regard to the feminine aspects of existence and again in&lt;br /&gt;reference to such natural products as tobacco and&lt;br /&gt;distilled/fermented spirits…. It isn’t hard to see a parallel. The&lt;br /&gt;Earth has long been referred to, itself as “Mother Earth.” Those&lt;br /&gt;things which are derived naturally from “her” are very much in a&lt;br /&gt;feminine scope. There are incredible amounts of comparisons that&lt;br /&gt;I believe are far more than coincidental. Especially in the care and&lt;br /&gt;attention that was traditionally put into the production of many of&lt;br /&gt;those products. Wine, for instance… it is produced with long and&lt;br /&gt;caring attention even before the fermentation process… which itself&lt;br /&gt;could be seen as a form of a gestation period. It is susceptible to the&lt;br /&gt;whim of “her”… being the weather patterns… and even the ‘mood’&lt;br /&gt;of the climate in most cases. Tobacco in a natural form is much the&lt;br /&gt;same…. These are very feminine things…. Very ‘feminine’ process’….&lt;br /&gt;And very much allot more than some coincidental, or even&lt;br /&gt;purposeful ‘homage’ to some corporate advertising ‘spokeswomen.’&lt;br /&gt;It is very much a contradiction to appose these things and&lt;br /&gt;simultaneously claim to be a feminist. And even further a&lt;br /&gt;contradiction to fill your body with chemicals while denouncing&lt;br /&gt;these things AND claiming to be feminist. They, in themselves are&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;22&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;celebrations of the feminine aspects of existence…. And are so&lt;br /&gt;through a natural course of existence. It isn’t as though they were&lt;br /&gt;purposefully derived as some payment to ego….. further, they are&lt;br /&gt;very much more than some excuse for some phony sophisticate to&lt;br /&gt;pretend to be knowledgeable without really having a clue as to the&lt;br /&gt;depth of that which they mimic in their pretense. They are…&lt;br /&gt;because ‘it’ is. That is, they exist because of the feminine qualities&lt;br /&gt;of existence and only because of the course of existence. It isn’t&lt;br /&gt;“Butch.” It isn’t “limp wristed.” It isn’t male and it isn’t female. It&lt;br /&gt;simply is…. though it is something that is wrongfully employed in&lt;br /&gt;the ‘duping’ of entire societies at times.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“It” doesn’t exist because of the human female.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“It” doesn’t exist because of the human species what so ever.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“It,” the feminine aspects which are celebrated there-in, are not&lt;br /&gt;the only such qualities in existence. Nor are the masculine qualities&lt;br /&gt;which have inspired humans to tend to them with care through out&lt;br /&gt;the centuries..… to cultivate them as they would a mother and&lt;br /&gt;child….. their families.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can no more “fake” a good wine… than you can “fake” being&lt;br /&gt;an actual feminist in the true sense of the word. If I had to draw a&lt;br /&gt;comparison… I would say that most of the modern feminists are&lt;br /&gt;along the lines of what is referred to on the street as “Mad Dog”…&lt;br /&gt;being a fortified, very inexpensive wine concoction… in comparison&lt;br /&gt;to the actual feminine qualities which are unavoidably celebrated in&lt;br /&gt;even the most common of decent wines.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This type of metaphor, translates into society in different ways as&lt;br /&gt;well…and it does so without intention and very much as result of&lt;br /&gt;the course of our existence…. It is that attempts are always being&lt;br /&gt;made to influence this direction and aspect of life…. But those&lt;br /&gt;attempts are as laughable as are the pseudo feminists themselves.&lt;br /&gt;You just can’t fake a good wine. It is obvious to even the most&lt;br /&gt;“untrained” of palates when such is attempted…. that is… it is&lt;br /&gt;obvious to even the most untrained of palates which possess the&lt;br /&gt;insight and self of self, and our existence, beyond the topical. Yes, it&lt;br /&gt;is constantly attempted it seems, within our society…. but really to&lt;br /&gt;no ends other than destruction to those areas which support such&lt;br /&gt;attempts. Ill quality production within society is all that can really&lt;br /&gt;ever manifest in the wake of such ill attempts…. Then beyond that is&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;23&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;the continuation of attempts at repairing/covering up the results of&lt;br /&gt;the ill intended attempts. It becomes a cycle of destruction of itself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It renders the attentions due to the actual cultivation as spent on&lt;br /&gt;sad attempts at concealing the truths about the very unpalatable&lt;br /&gt;results. Rendering less and less in regard to anything which could&lt;br /&gt;be labeled as productivity with each turn… much less anything&lt;br /&gt;which could be seen as sustenance in any form.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Those holding some line of adamant, hard line femininity…&lt;br /&gt;while ignoring the very essence of femininity are really doing&lt;br /&gt;nothing but marking themselves as what they truly are…. That being&lt;br /&gt;the social by-product of the ‘corporate’ version of feminism… which&lt;br /&gt;amounts to lip service providers and the element which renders&lt;br /&gt;modern feminism a chauvinists wet dream. They do as much to&lt;br /&gt;degrade the feminine as do the outright chauvinists….. even more in&lt;br /&gt;their professed stance while being nothing but hookers in a sense.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In that respect…. Modern feminism is a work of genius from the&lt;br /&gt;perspective of the sexually inept and socially lacking male element…&lt;br /&gt;the female element as well, for that matter. It sets up a situation of&lt;br /&gt;“call and response” which have little to do with actual feminism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I think about it… modern feminism and it’s twisted&lt;br /&gt;versions, might be the only way that ‘nerds’ ever started to get laid&lt;br /&gt;to begin with. … and that wasn’t because of some form of equality&lt;br /&gt;being produced, or even the very obvious manifestation and&lt;br /&gt;emulation of pseudo masculinity in the ranks of pseudo&lt;br /&gt;feminists….. it was simply due to the basic manipulation of people&lt;br /&gt;(females) with much less than any simple clue about what it is they&lt;br /&gt;are claiming to be and support. In that respect, there are those that&lt;br /&gt;think the modern, pseudo feminism is a godsend.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another point of contention in my opinion, is the development&lt;br /&gt;and regard of pseudo masculinity as being some affiliation/part of&lt;br /&gt;feminism. When did the overblown emulation of masculinity&lt;br /&gt;become feminine…… or a feminine goal in promoting feminism? In&lt;br /&gt;one breath they will threaten to remove the testicals of any male in&lt;br /&gt;their midst….. and in the other condone the womanizing such as I&lt;br /&gt;have described AND while doing so themselves. I have heard worse&lt;br /&gt;things said about the female existence and sexual attributes from the&lt;br /&gt;direction of females (militant lesbians), than any male I have ever&lt;br /&gt;met or known. Then support their distasteful commentary with&lt;br /&gt;things a person would expect from the most repugnant of&lt;br /&gt;chauvinists…. “She likes it like that.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;24&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Where is their room to complain of anything pertaining to the&lt;br /&gt;female, feminine element of existence? Especially when all that&lt;br /&gt;their existence has become, is an emulation of that which they claim&lt;br /&gt;to detest. “It’s o.k. if we behave in sickening, ill manners toward&lt;br /&gt;you, because we are females…” It is quite disturbing in the least.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The fact that it is over looked and even tolerated is concerning in&lt;br /&gt;the same respect. The fact that somehow such has become&lt;br /&gt;associated with feminism would set every alarm in my head off if it&lt;br /&gt;were that I were a female of an actual feminist persuasion. Being a&lt;br /&gt;male, there is really nothing I can do except watch as it all rots away&lt;br /&gt;in that direction. Factually, my attempt at addressing it here-in is&lt;br /&gt;more than likely going to draw the wrath of those trying to hide that&lt;br /&gt;kind of sickness. Such will transpire in the very predictable manner&lt;br /&gt;of accusation and excuse in my being a male, as if it means that I&lt;br /&gt;have no insight into existence itself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Perhaps the fact that this kind of modern, pseudo feminism seems to be the normality and standard in the United States is a type of hidden, merciful reprieve. That in the hopes through deduction, of any actual feminist not being here to witness&lt;br /&gt;it…..being spared the misery of witnessing this modern version of the “American feminine society.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is hard, very hard to watch….. so much being wasted and in a manner as to never be attainable again. It is a tragedy ranking among the highest of tragedies… ranking in the extinction of species though it is that those professing it are actually multiplying. All through their own misgivings, and unfortunately, misunderstandings of what it is to be feminine… and obviously misunderstandings of what it means to be masculine in the same respect and relation. Somehow having turned ‘feminism’ into a&lt;br /&gt;synonym for scarred, vindictive and hateful emulators of masculinity…. While simultaneously suggesting that actual masculinity bears the very same traits… and is there-in to be despised and hated… even persecuted.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From my upbringing and perspective…. From my experience and insight…. Actual feminism and actual masculinity aren’t that different….. they are very much of the same respect, in that respect, for that which ‘is.’ They are very much from the same form of ‘essence.’&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What is now manifest within the modern American female is nothing near it, in either extreme….. what is now seen as feminist&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;25&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;within our ‘modern’ society, is very much as of an undeveloped child… a selfish, unisex, empty and abandoned child seeking an excuse in anything it can find. Seeking to loose wrath on anything that may get in it’s way… even those things which have sustained it, and especially anything that will not help to propel it on it’s way to&lt;br /&gt;it’s own destruction through supporting the façade it so laboriously maintains. Doing so at the expense of anything and everything it can manage. Even itself in ways it does not possess the capacity to grasp.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The modern American female really has no clue as to the depth&lt;br /&gt;of existence. The modern American female judges itself based on&lt;br /&gt;what many other things tell it to aspire to….. rarely is it that any&lt;br /&gt;actually are of their own in any real way. It is very much a&lt;br /&gt;production meant to play on an image….. an image which is nothing&lt;br /&gt;more than a facsimile of a male roll in one extreme, and a ‘lust&lt;br /&gt;bucket” in the other. All the while becoming enslaved and&lt;br /&gt;dependent on the “spinners” of this imagery. Amounting then to&lt;br /&gt;nothing more than prostitutes for an image. All through their own&lt;br /&gt;efforts….. more through a lack of effort in becoming their own&lt;br /&gt;existence and all which that would entail.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is far easier to have an excuse, to say you are an aspiring&lt;br /&gt;feminist which has met adversity and perhaps failed in that&lt;br /&gt;confrontation… the supposed failure in that supposed confrontation&lt;br /&gt;is really nothing more than your payment for the ability to lease&lt;br /&gt;such an image, than it is to risk ones own existence… triumphs and&lt;br /&gt;failures. It’s an agreed exchange at that. And laughably…. It is an&lt;br /&gt;exchange which really has nothing to do with actually being a&lt;br /&gt;feminist. It is an exchange to quell the fabricated version and&lt;br /&gt;wanton-ness of that image, to satisfy some false knowledge of&lt;br /&gt;feminism. In some cases, it is seen as some duty for the “cause” of&lt;br /&gt;this false feminism… as if it were for the actual existence of&lt;br /&gt;femininity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An actual feminist doesn’t need the image of it… there is no&lt;br /&gt;rent in that respect for an actual feminist…. There is no ranting and&lt;br /&gt;raging to account for…. There is no excuse that need be made.&lt;br /&gt;Those that endeavor to those arrangements are doubly duped….&lt;br /&gt;And more-so in never having known what it is to be feminist to&lt;br /&gt;begin with. Selling themselves short in all angles of the subject.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Trading something they can’t even begin to understand…. For the&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;26&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;modern image of someone else’s version of it…. Claiming it to have&lt;br /&gt;been their right because they are a female.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let’s get this entirely out in the open… I am a male… if women&lt;br /&gt;want to be hookers… I’m not going to argue or even complain until&lt;br /&gt;such becomes a health and safety detriment to the rest of society…&lt;br /&gt;and there-in directly effecting me…… but it sickens me to witness&lt;br /&gt;such blatant whoring being labeled as feminism. That is a form of&lt;br /&gt;desecration in my mind. Even more to the ill when the pseudo&lt;br /&gt;feminist whores serving those that support their image, levy their&lt;br /&gt;duped, pseudo feminist whore opinions on the rest of society in the&lt;br /&gt;guise of feminism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another point here, is that there are as many male whores in&lt;br /&gt;that respect as there are female…. But the guise of feminism isn’t&lt;br /&gt;used in the masculine version of such whoring…. And further it is&lt;br /&gt;that the masculine version of such whoring… such want of apparent&lt;br /&gt;social station and importance isn’t as effective on the rest of society&lt;br /&gt;as is the example of blatant whoring for social status that is evident&lt;br /&gt;in most females with lofty ambitions… that is… the type of&lt;br /&gt;ambitions beyond their own capacity and will to achieve of their&lt;br /&gt;own. That isn’t feminism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In recent observations of females across the demographical&lt;br /&gt;spectrums… the over all commonality is quite simply that most of&lt;br /&gt;them are frequently alone. In that they are difficult to approach&lt;br /&gt;given their disposition for what ever reason. Again, this is an&lt;br /&gt;observation that entails a larger number percentage of females…&lt;br /&gt;attractive young females as well as females in general.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It isn’t as though there is some lop sided population issue…. It is&lt;br /&gt;simply that they are alone…. And with as many young men in the&lt;br /&gt;very same areas. Many of these females spend countless hours&lt;br /&gt;alone…. In that, they spend those hours alone, wanton of&lt;br /&gt;companionship… all the while maintaining a stand-off-ish and ‘nonresponsive’&lt;br /&gt;attitude in areas and situations that would other wise&lt;br /&gt;enable them to find companionship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have noted as well that this changes immediately when the&lt;br /&gt;opportunity of potential money/gain of some sort is involved… this&lt;br /&gt;also changes immediately if they are lead to believe that interaction&lt;br /&gt;will lead to some sort of ‘success’….&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;27&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have, as well, somewhat extensively researched another&lt;br /&gt;phenomena involving, and on the internet pertaining to just about&lt;br /&gt;anyone with a twenty dollar bill and a video camera being able to go&lt;br /&gt;into business with an amateur porn site…. Sadly these exchanges&lt;br /&gt;result in scathing insults published along with the footage of sexual&lt;br /&gt;favor…. This ‘favor’ having been achieved through persuasion with&lt;br /&gt;money or other promises….and the tone and type of schmooze&lt;br /&gt;attention the young ladies receive leading up to the actual sexual&lt;br /&gt;exchange and filming is sickeningly obvious as to the ends desired.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is usually in the progression of some promise to fame… some&lt;br /&gt;extra income… some sort of ‘audition.’ It then (and quite rapidly,&lt;br /&gt;usually) becomes an outright fuck session that is incredibly&lt;br /&gt;demoralizing in most cases. That footage is then published on the&lt;br /&gt;internet with horrific commentary pertaining to the female that was&lt;br /&gt;involved…. “This stupid little slut didn’t have a clue, but ended up&lt;br /&gt;taking my cock like a pro…..” “We found this little bitch at the&lt;br /&gt;mall…. Her daddy thinks she is shopping with her friends…..,”&lt;br /&gt;“This dumb whore had a tattoo and said that she could handle&lt;br /&gt;pain… then I fucked her with my giant cock until she cried…”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“There is obviously no shortage of this type of “feminist…” as it&lt;br /&gt;is hardly possible to count all of the dollar porn sites containing&lt;br /&gt;footage obtained in the same manner… and in that it is that each&lt;br /&gt;web site has a substantial amount of different females that have&lt;br /&gt;made such decisions as being filmed having sex with people (many&lt;br /&gt;times multiple) that they don’t know within moments of meeting&lt;br /&gt;them… many times in places like the back of a van moving down the&lt;br /&gt;road….. the entire exchange done in a matter of minutes….. And&lt;br /&gt;even further, these sites are always updated. What type of feminist&lt;br /&gt;is that? These type of liaisons extend into the married female and&lt;br /&gt;middle age/divorced females as well. Much with the same result&lt;br /&gt;and much with the same demoralizing action and commentary.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What’s more to the sadness of this… is, as I have stated…. These&lt;br /&gt;females ‘agree’ to these exchanges.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Again…. A healthy romp between consenting adults is one&lt;br /&gt;thing… it is in fact a very interesting and worth while thing….. in my&lt;br /&gt;personal opinion it is even more so a worth while thing when it is&lt;br /&gt;that the consenting adults are of some rapport beyond “You have&lt;br /&gt;nice tits and a cute ass…. ‘gee thanks, no one has ever said that before’…..&lt;br /&gt;do you want to make an audition video? I have some&lt;br /&gt;connections…..and you have the goods……” Which ends up with&lt;br /&gt;sexual intercourse usually, and perhaps even an exchange of money&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;28&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“for her time” upon being informed that “she probably isn’t what&lt;br /&gt;they were looking for.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don’t look now, but the self proclaimed, “Modern Feminist,”&lt;br /&gt;while enjoying her ‘freedom, equality, self sufficiency and&lt;br /&gt;empowerment,’ just became a whore of her own volition. This&lt;br /&gt;usually then begins a vicious cycle of events and emotions within the&lt;br /&gt;‘Modern Feminist’ that chose to become a whore. Firstly toward the&lt;br /&gt;men that ‘turned her into one’ and then toward any female that has&lt;br /&gt;as of yet to make the same stupid decisions as she has found herself&lt;br /&gt;making. What this usually means is that in spite of the “Modern&lt;br /&gt;Feminist Whore’s” new (and misguided) hatred toward men… she&lt;br /&gt;usually begins to work with and for those men (and specifically the&lt;br /&gt;ones that she supposedly hates) in getting other recruits for the same&lt;br /&gt;type of endeavors. What this also becomes is a blind distaste for all&lt;br /&gt;men in general… just as a matter of course….. most of the time, the&lt;br /&gt;specific men that provided the opportunity for the independent&lt;br /&gt;“Modern Feminist” to choose to become a whore, become her only&lt;br /&gt;male contacts in society…. Other than perhaps the occasional ‘trick’&lt;br /&gt;which is never referred to as a trick…..&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From my observations, the “Modern Feminist” within that cycle&lt;br /&gt;usually becomes so delusional that even the harmful commentary&lt;br /&gt;published publicly about her, next to footage of her copulation, is&lt;br /&gt;seen in her eyes as some sort of compliment after awhile.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Though this isn’t feminism, it is widely thought as the road to&lt;br /&gt;such….as many times a part of the eventual exchange is in the&lt;br /&gt;secrecy and in ‘support’ of that illusion from the direction of those&lt;br /&gt;which have become her ‘pimps’ for all intent and purpose.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The idea of “feminism” then has been changed from the&lt;br /&gt;presence of equality and independence of choice… to dependence&lt;br /&gt;on others to tell you that you are those things that you want to be….&lt;br /&gt;This being achieved through violating everything about what you&lt;br /&gt;claim in claiming to be a feminist.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yet again, so as to be entirely clear about my position; A good&lt;br /&gt;‘poke in the whiskers’ is a very human thing….. but why is it that&lt;br /&gt;‘whore = feminist’ in our modern day? It isn’t as though the sexual&lt;br /&gt;act is the beginning or end of anything… ESPECIALLY in the&lt;br /&gt;capacity in which it has become. How did ‘feminism’ come to&lt;br /&gt;mean ‘sexual prowess’ while disregarding every other aspect of&lt;br /&gt;existence?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;29&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many of these ‘pseudo feminists’ even become brainwashed in a&lt;br /&gt;degree that they begin to think that their sexual drive is indicative of&lt;br /&gt;their level of feminism….. the harder that they ‘fuck,’ the mightier&lt;br /&gt;they are seen as a feminist…. Now, personally I don’t have much&lt;br /&gt;against this type of attitude… that is, being a ‘live wire’ in the&lt;br /&gt;sack….. I do have something against the manner in which many of&lt;br /&gt;them attain such a ‘drive’ and the other things that they desperately&lt;br /&gt;want them to mean…. One of which being some sort of attachment&lt;br /&gt;to the badge of feminism while disregarding everything else about&lt;br /&gt;it…. About being human within it…..&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Even further in the aspect of “sexual ambition,” is the fact that&lt;br /&gt;most “Modern Feminists” will not ‘expose’ themselves in such a&lt;br /&gt;manner with their mates. Many of them even go out of their way to&lt;br /&gt;find other ‘partners’ for which to become ‘animal like’ in their&lt;br /&gt;sexual performance. This is incredibly dysfunctional. It is ill. It&lt;br /&gt;makes me ill to know that it is quite common… and I personally&lt;br /&gt;believe that such is connected to the growing tendency of playing&lt;br /&gt;‘divorce lawyer’ as I have described. Where is the need to secrecy…&lt;br /&gt;the willingness to deprive the person you swore yourself to…&lt;br /&gt;perhaps even have had children with? Where is the strength of the&lt;br /&gt;‘Modern Feminist’ in communicating such wants with even those&lt;br /&gt;that they are already incredibly intimate with? What kind of&lt;br /&gt;feminist would make such decisions and do so willingly? To&lt;br /&gt;willingly violate so many things about being feminine…. To forsake&lt;br /&gt;even her own children with such secrecy? Needless secrecy at that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I do very much expect the response of ‘none of your business’&lt;br /&gt;and the like… in regard to extra marital affairs…. But come on?&lt;br /&gt;Where is the element of feminism in which such acts are done in&lt;br /&gt;the name of? Why label it feminism?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another aspect of the internet phenomena, is the amount of&lt;br /&gt;“single and looking” profiles a person can find on the internet….&lt;br /&gt;Some of them being genuine attempts to find companionship, but&lt;br /&gt;most being nothing more than an advertisement for sexual favor in&lt;br /&gt;exchange for something…. Many of those being very blatant to the&lt;br /&gt;point of outright stating it in so many words. These seem to be very&lt;br /&gt;much a product of the “fall out” from experiences like those I have&lt;br /&gt;just described. These “profiles” becoming some sort of vehicle for&lt;br /&gt;some spiteful revenge that is really more sad and worthy of pity than&lt;br /&gt;anything else. It seems that to most of them, those profiles&lt;br /&gt;represent what it is that they have lost of themselves. In essence&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;30&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;they seem meant to represent that dead area of themselves that once&lt;br /&gt;would have existed as the feminine quality. The profiles rang in sort&lt;br /&gt;from outright hurtful toward others…. to ‘alluring’ in a “bad actor&lt;br /&gt;way” in an effort to potentially set up the situation where the female&lt;br /&gt;can purposefully attempt to emotionally hurt their ‘prey.’ This&lt;br /&gt;representing some twisted form of feminism and seen as some sort&lt;br /&gt;of feminine power. For some reason, life turns into a series of&lt;br /&gt;hurtful games for these people, and these profiles begin to be seen&lt;br /&gt;as some sort of safe place…. Some fantasy representation of their&lt;br /&gt;feminine power.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyone with any semblance of insight into existence at all knows&lt;br /&gt;that destruction of any sort is in no way real power….especially&lt;br /&gt;purposeful, premeditated destruction. Anyone can break&lt;br /&gt;something, but not everyone can build something. It isn’t everyone&lt;br /&gt;that has the power and sense of self to risk being exposed to the&lt;br /&gt;natural forms of emotional highs and lows….. but anyone can spew&lt;br /&gt;hurtful crap…. anyone can deceive and lie….&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These people classify themselves as feminist. This tells me that&lt;br /&gt;there is an incredible lack of understanding pertaining to the&lt;br /&gt;meaning of that word.. and even further, what using it in a self&lt;br /&gt;descriptive manner suggests…..especially when involved in blatant&lt;br /&gt;solicitation for sexual favor in exchange for something… and even&lt;br /&gt;more so in labeling purposeful attempts to destroy the potential of&lt;br /&gt;someone else’s happiness as ‘feminist.’&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Somehow, “feminist” has been transformed into ‘mindless,&lt;br /&gt;delusional hooker living in denial…’ and has been effectively utilized&lt;br /&gt;through out society in many ways as such…. transforming the&lt;br /&gt;potential of a politically active and healthy body, into a “body of&lt;br /&gt;influence” for a price. Self regulating prostitution on several levels.&lt;br /&gt;All anyone needs to do to employ the feminist body for their&lt;br /&gt;own ends, is associate your want or movement with the ‘image’ of&lt;br /&gt;‘independent female’ while simultaneously slandering those in your&lt;br /&gt;way as having been anti-feminist. They will even damage their own&lt;br /&gt;ranks and the very substance of their own movement…. Most only&lt;br /&gt;seeking some topical, senseless revenge that exists mostly in their&lt;br /&gt;own mind for reasons of the same sort. None researching the&lt;br /&gt;reasons for such a “call to arms” beyond the word of mouth and the&lt;br /&gt;ever present payment of ‘lip service’ for the use of such influence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;31&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The odd situation of this, is that many of the young ladies seem&lt;br /&gt;to think that they are “soldiering” some battle of the sexes.. and are&lt;br /&gt;holding some feminist ground in doing so. Such is their immediate&lt;br /&gt;‘escapist’ excuse in failing to be actually involved and informed…..&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This perception bodes well for those seeking such sexual&lt;br /&gt;encounter and use politically of that body…. But for the actual&lt;br /&gt;movement of feminism, for the actual potential of human&lt;br /&gt;interaction, it is a hideous disease… one that no one can do&lt;br /&gt;anything about, except watch as it rots the very metal of existence&lt;br /&gt;on many levels…. a little more every time it is employed as such.&lt;br /&gt;It seems as though the females really want to engage in these&lt;br /&gt;sexual activities. They only want an excuse for doing so. They want&lt;br /&gt;to, but don’t want to be seen as wanting to….. probably in some&lt;br /&gt;strange attempt at respect for feminism. This is entirely backwards&lt;br /&gt;in my opinion.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Females enjoy sex as much or more than do males. As I said,&lt;br /&gt;they want to engage in sexual intercourse but don’t want to be seen&lt;br /&gt;as wanting to…. This being because, I suppose, that ‘wanting to’ and&lt;br /&gt;doing so frequently would somehow devalue their existence if it&lt;br /&gt;were not a secret. If it were known that they had sex of their own&lt;br /&gt;will and volition as much as they would like, they would be seen as&lt;br /&gt;‘dirty’ and would feel as though they were devalued. The fact that&lt;br /&gt;many seem to think that honest exchange and interaction would&lt;br /&gt;‘devalue’ them in some manner (hence the secrecy), means that they&lt;br /&gt;themselves, objectify themselves. They place themselves in the roll&lt;br /&gt;of ‘livestock,’ something to use meaninglessly…. They place&lt;br /&gt;themselves in the roll of ‘object’ which their feminist leanings&lt;br /&gt;outright rail against. I believe this need to ‘conserve’ their ‘public&lt;br /&gt;value’ and ‘marketability’ is part of why the modern female&lt;br /&gt;(feminist) has so much trouble with being assertive in beginning any&lt;br /&gt;relation or even communication with another person… specifically&lt;br /&gt;any male.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In all honesty, I do believe that it would be rather an&lt;br /&gt;entertaining experience to be involved in passionate intercourse in&lt;br /&gt;not so normal situations… it is exciting in allot of ways….. It is the&lt;br /&gt;fact that these young ladies are doing this for ‘potential fame’ (which&lt;br /&gt;no one can seriously believe), for money….. and for some false sense&lt;br /&gt;of empowerment through what ever brain washing has created this&lt;br /&gt;“Modern Feminist.” Letting yourself… choosing to be sexually used&lt;br /&gt;and discarded isn’t feminism, but is accepted in the ‘feminist’ ranks&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;32&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;as long as it is a ‘secret.’ Being a ‘cash and carry’ hooker, a hooker&lt;br /&gt;for ‘trade,’ is no where near feminism either. In my opinion, an&lt;br /&gt;actual feminist of their own empowerment and person, would make&lt;br /&gt;the decisions to become involved in these exciting situations because&lt;br /&gt;they want to experience them… not because they might get&lt;br /&gt;something out of it….. not because they may be provided with an&lt;br /&gt;excuse in acting stupid enough to insist that they believe the&lt;br /&gt;outrageous lines some of these guys (and other females) use to get&lt;br /&gt;them undressed and on camera…. And definitely not just because it&lt;br /&gt;will ‘be a secret.’&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another aspect of this, is the façade of wealth…. Directly, there&lt;br /&gt;is a young lady standing next to me… if I turned to her with any sort&lt;br /&gt;of proposition in even just a normal male/female roll… the chances&lt;br /&gt;of getting any sort of a positive response are far less (if any at all),&lt;br /&gt;being that I appear to be an average guy, than if I had a roll of&lt;br /&gt;twenty dollar bills I were flashing around (regardless of how I&lt;br /&gt;obtained them) and a rental limo. Even if I brandished a twenty&lt;br /&gt;dollar bill with a video camera in my hand, I would be more apt to a&lt;br /&gt;positive response than in wasting time in conversation in the&lt;br /&gt;direction of human exchange. Factually, in the modern day, I&lt;br /&gt;would be the fool to waste time in such a direction…. As the&lt;br /&gt;modern “feminist” is very much bored with anything seen as&lt;br /&gt;mundane/normal…. Even if it is that I had managed to convince&lt;br /&gt;any prospective young lady to share any amount of time with me…&lt;br /&gt;she would not be interested in anything farther than some ‘buddy’&lt;br /&gt;relationship…. And would probably be very likely to find herself in&lt;br /&gt;some meaningless sexual encounter with another partner (most&lt;br /&gt;likely in exchange for something), even while becoming more&lt;br /&gt;acquainted with me. Failing even to explore the possibilities of such&lt;br /&gt;a relationship with the individual she is “getting to know.” This is&lt;br /&gt;seen as some sort of “freedom.” They really do not see the depth of&lt;br /&gt;how much they are being played upon and used. They really don’t&lt;br /&gt;seem to see how it is that they are accomplishing nothing with this&lt;br /&gt;attitude more than effectively running away from the actual&lt;br /&gt;substance of life…. the potentials for experience beyond any casual&lt;br /&gt;encounter. They are purposefully avoiding the depth of life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This, I suppose cannot be attributed to any singular reason in&lt;br /&gt;considering the modern society….. everything is expected to be&lt;br /&gt;‘now’ and even that isn’t fast enough in many cases. Such a&lt;br /&gt;direction coupled with the continuing loss of sight as to the reasons&lt;br /&gt;and human qualities of existence….. and as such in ‘feminism,’&lt;br /&gt;amounts to a very deep and wide communication void. In fact,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;33&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;knowing that such has been steadily increasing as the normal in&lt;br /&gt;society, tells me that along with these hard lines and lost directions&lt;br /&gt;of movements has come the loss of knowledge in basic&lt;br /&gt;communication. Predictably those ‘hard lines’ have equated to the&lt;br /&gt;manifestation of a confusion due to loss of natural human content&lt;br /&gt;within everyday life. As if something has retarded the mental&lt;br /&gt;growth of the American female…. this not to be confused with academic&lt;br /&gt;scoring…….&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For instance; I can stand or sit at a bus stop next to one or more&lt;br /&gt;females of my same age or there about… and can safely say that not&lt;br /&gt;one of them will move to strike up a conversation of even the casual&lt;br /&gt;sort. Given, I am no sex symbol but I’m no slouch either… in fact,&lt;br /&gt;anyone that invested a bit of time in getting to know me, would find&lt;br /&gt;me quite the catch…. The point is, is that it is a very natural and&lt;br /&gt;human thing to be curious about the opposite sex and to have some&lt;br /&gt;level of interest in even the most simple of ways…. It is a very&lt;br /&gt;American thing to not explore that initial interest to some degree or&lt;br /&gt;another. People here, especially females… just don’t seem to grasp&lt;br /&gt;the idea of ‘Carpe Diem.’ To most Americans, that translates to&lt;br /&gt;“get what you can as fast as you can” and as if it needed explaining,&lt;br /&gt;entirely misses the meaning and point of such wisdom.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This lack of communication is something definitely derived from&lt;br /&gt;recent modern America….. I can state an experience that supports&lt;br /&gt;this in very much the same situation I posed as example with the&lt;br /&gt;bus stop. It was mid late evening, and I was waiting for a bus… a&lt;br /&gt;young lady walked up and stood relatively close to me… we&lt;br /&gt;exchanged glances and then subtle looks…. To which she tried to&lt;br /&gt;explain that she didn’t even speak English… she was/is of European&lt;br /&gt;nationality…. Even through our inability to verbally communicate….&lt;br /&gt;we managed to convey some rather pleasant meaning… even so far&lt;br /&gt;as her eventually sharing with me a piece of fruit that she had in her&lt;br /&gt;coat pocket. An American female, even in the guise of touting&lt;br /&gt;feminism, would never show so much self as to initiate conversation&lt;br /&gt;with a stranger, much less give offering of such a magnitude in such&lt;br /&gt;a simple gesture. That in itself is another form of communication&lt;br /&gt;that has been lost between the American male and female. To share&lt;br /&gt;your fruit, food in such a manner… in such a situation…. Really,&lt;br /&gt;what more need be said? It wasn’t meant to say “Fuck me now” and&lt;br /&gt;leave in the morning… and it wasn’t taken as such. It was simply a&lt;br /&gt;human gesture…. A gesture that meant more possibility than any&lt;br /&gt;number of near pornographic personal profiles on the internet…. A&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;34&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;gesture that meant more possibility than a $20 payment to be a hole&lt;br /&gt;in a fuck movie.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In another observation, the lack of actual assertiveness even in&lt;br /&gt;those females supposedly exercising a ‘modern’ level of equality and&lt;br /&gt;rights in feminism through participation in the United States&lt;br /&gt;Military is readily obvious. For instance, in observing modern&lt;br /&gt;sailors in the U.S. Navy on shore leave….. the difference and lack of&lt;br /&gt;individualism within the modern female is even more pronounced.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Those females within the ranks of these groups of sailors all stayed&lt;br /&gt;well within the grouping. It was always the males within the group&lt;br /&gt;that ventured to communicate with any civilian element. It was very&lt;br /&gt;much the males that showed any assertiveness within the groupings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This isn’t meant as any sort of insult, but is purely observation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Even in a strictly enforced governmental atmosphere which a person&lt;br /&gt;would think would very much promote the individualism and&lt;br /&gt;assertiveness of the ‘modern feminist,’ the tendency of the females&lt;br /&gt;was to maintain a submissive roll. To follow the lead of the more&lt;br /&gt;assertive male’s. To remain in the group. This tendency, combined&lt;br /&gt;with some false platform of social station, is very much what begins&lt;br /&gt;to cause the imprisoning effect of the pseudo feminist dynamic.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This effect within society equates to many of the things I have&lt;br /&gt;already addressed, and especially within the common aspect of that&lt;br /&gt;phenomena I described about a “political body for hire.” Many of&lt;br /&gt;them really don’t see the misuse of their supposed movement….&lt;br /&gt;And it only became supposed through a lack of actual participation&lt;br /&gt;on their own part. Essentially, “feminism” has been molded to be&lt;br /&gt;nothing more than ‘embittered body of nags for hire.’ I believe this&lt;br /&gt;to be for various reasons. The first of which, as I have already&lt;br /&gt;explained, is a lack of assertiveness and participation in even their&lt;br /&gt;own existence. Much more of this ‘development’ is due to the&lt;br /&gt;corporate atmosphere of the United States, and much of what that&lt;br /&gt;entails.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Every day, I watch numerous… waves of young, attractive females&lt;br /&gt;that are always alone. This is for some reason. A reason beyond any&lt;br /&gt;topical explanation. These young, available women live lives that&lt;br /&gt;systematically become empty….. filled with nothing beyond&lt;br /&gt;television programming and years of sitting there wondering why&lt;br /&gt;they are so lonely.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sure, they have the occasional night out….. but most of them in&lt;br /&gt;that become the inadvertent victims of illusion… the illusion that&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;35&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;they are actually doing what they want to be doing… because&lt;br /&gt;someone else tells them that they are…. When in fact, they cannot&lt;br /&gt;account for the frighteningly substantial amount of their lives that&lt;br /&gt;they spend in front of a television, sitting on a couch wishing they&lt;br /&gt;were doing something else.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some of the women spend years doing this. Think about that…&lt;br /&gt;that is years filled with nothing except someone or something else&lt;br /&gt;telling you that you have what you want. Telling you that you are&lt;br /&gt;alone because you are a ‘strong, independent female…’ a&lt;br /&gt;“Feminist!” They do this, in some cases for decades… eventually&lt;br /&gt;looking back and seeing the nothing and wanton content of their&lt;br /&gt;wasted lives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The very thing that served as their best friend through all those&lt;br /&gt;years, which is the television…. Loves this moment of realization….&lt;br /&gt;It means to the television that the female, ‘Feminist’… is going to&lt;br /&gt;seek council of some sort and who better to provide it than her&lt;br /&gt;friend the television set? Something else that this does, is to set up&lt;br /&gt;the rank and file of the “Nag for hire” aspect that I have addressed.&lt;br /&gt;Imagine looking back at your life after having dedicated it to the&lt;br /&gt;empty ‘suggested’ promises of fulfillment if you simply ‘comply,’ and&lt;br /&gt;seeing the truth of the void it actually became? HUGE amounts of&lt;br /&gt;bitterness… and sadly it becomes bitterness that is simply&lt;br /&gt;misdirected through the same manipulations as those that created&lt;br /&gt;it. You notice that it is never the corporations fault… it is never the&lt;br /&gt;individuals fault that has reached insanity due to this bitterness…. It&lt;br /&gt;is always some ones fault that will serve as a point/excuse to&lt;br /&gt;continue the cycle of creating that bitterness. “Parents… ‘Almost&lt;br /&gt;boyfriend’….. even their job.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Think of it…. Committing decades of your life to some suggested&lt;br /&gt;idea given you in the ‘beer commercial’ mentality… then finding&lt;br /&gt;that none of those years of investment did or will pay off. Some of&lt;br /&gt;these people buy into these images their entire life….. spending&lt;br /&gt;absurd amounts of money over the years on some promoted image&lt;br /&gt;that is supposed to lead to/deliver happiness. Why don’t any of&lt;br /&gt;them ever notice that it can only ‘do it tomorrow.’&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many of them are lead to believe that their occasional night&lt;br /&gt;out…. even the $20 fuck scene, are payments from that dedication.&lt;br /&gt;The big prizes so to speak. Most are told what to believe about even&lt;br /&gt;themselves through the same mediums….. as they sit, embittered&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;36&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;alone…. ‘investing’ in the supposed possibility of some image…&lt;br /&gt;when they are really doing nothing but passing on the actual&lt;br /&gt;possibilities of their lives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am not suggesting that everyone should run out and do some&lt;br /&gt;crazy thing every day…. But a bit of assertive involvement would save&lt;br /&gt;so many people so much bitterness and emotional pain. Assertive&lt;br /&gt;involvement that isn’t of the common variety which entails the&lt;br /&gt;employment of that already developed bitterness and&lt;br /&gt;unfounded/misguided hatred.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From my personal experience, there doesn’t seem to be much of&lt;br /&gt;a difference between the Urban and Rural female in the modern&lt;br /&gt;day…. This comparison in regard to the area’s of delusion and level&lt;br /&gt;of comfortable assumption, which I feel is part of what aids the ease&lt;br /&gt;of manipulation within those ‘pseudo feminist’ ranks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I grew up in a semi-rural setting. Mostly through the seventies&lt;br /&gt;and eighties. Much of what I grew to know feminism as to be was&lt;br /&gt;very much a movement with which to secure a more equal footing&lt;br /&gt;within society for females of all walks and professional&lt;br /&gt;levels/aspirations. This has ‘progressed’ in manners that I have&lt;br /&gt;described and has grown to create another phenomena as well…&lt;br /&gt;that phenomena being a very uncommon area of social friction&lt;br /&gt;within the domestic concerns of American existence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With the feminist movement came a sense of independence. A&lt;br /&gt;social atmosphere in which the female was no longer relegated to&lt;br /&gt;the stereotypical ‘women’ things within the domestic situation.&lt;br /&gt;Strangely enough, this opportunity also grew to create another area&lt;br /&gt;of contention so to speak, about concerns of and for the personal&lt;br /&gt;value of the American female. It placed society in a pickle of sorts….&lt;br /&gt;No longer was the female to be held responsible for those tasks and&lt;br /&gt;stereotypical functions of the house wife… but as well, the male&lt;br /&gt;could not fill them in her place out of some danger of encroaching&lt;br /&gt;on ‘female turf.’&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This double standard has progressed and grown as a dysfunction&lt;br /&gt;within the house hold and society. I have experienced it personally&lt;br /&gt;in multiple attempts at investigating the possibility of becoming a&lt;br /&gt;‘house husband.’ The ‘attempts’ being mostly from survey and&lt;br /&gt;observation of the modern domestic situation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;37&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This rather unique social dynamic, while not being particularly&lt;br /&gt;optimal for the family environment (being that double standard), it&lt;br /&gt;does prove to be seen as quite profitable to many large bodies of&lt;br /&gt;corporations. If it were that the male began to take on house hold&lt;br /&gt;responsibilities….. it is that many of the convenient areas of&lt;br /&gt;available products would then become stressed for ‘move-ability.’ It&lt;br /&gt;is much more convenient and profitable for these producers to&lt;br /&gt;provide for those basic needs, than it would be for men to begin to&lt;br /&gt;step into those rolls (in the eyes of the producing corporations and&lt;br /&gt;subsequently those of the public through that influence). It is very&lt;br /&gt;much that the ‘feminist’ movement is a great provider for the&lt;br /&gt;demand of pre fabricated solutions for the house hold&lt;br /&gt;environment….. And beyond the fiscal concerns… is again that area&lt;br /&gt;of unspoken competition.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In many of the opinions of the modern “pseudo feminist” the&lt;br /&gt;area of domestic provider is still supposed to be a females right to&lt;br /&gt;tout. This doesn’t bode well for the domestic situation… especially&lt;br /&gt;in those with one or more children. The double standard creates a&lt;br /&gt;non-starter situation…. Almost an ‘un-addressable’ friction. If the&lt;br /&gt;male moves into those areas of being the domestic provider, it is&lt;br /&gt;seen as encroachment on the feminist…. If the male insists on those&lt;br /&gt;duties being performed in that capacity by the female, it is seen as&lt;br /&gt;an encroachment on the modern feminist. This leaves very few&lt;br /&gt;options… the most readily available and obvious of which is ‘out&lt;br /&gt;sourcing’ of sorts. Pre-fabricated food products, baby sitters- day&lt;br /&gt;care….. and it leads to the illusion and further false bolstering of the&lt;br /&gt;‘pseudo feminist’ movement, that the male is really not needed in&lt;br /&gt;the domestic situation. As if the male is then ‘dead weight.’ It is a&lt;br /&gt;very selfish and one sided political position that results most times&lt;br /&gt;in furthering the dysfunction which is spawned in that situation.&lt;br /&gt;From situations I have witnessed, many times this creates an ill&lt;br /&gt;environment for a child’s growth. As if their existence and&lt;br /&gt;relationship with their very own parents is a sort of ‘rental’&lt;br /&gt;relationship. That may seem like a very crude illustration, but if a&lt;br /&gt;person examines it there is more than substantial truth to it. The&lt;br /&gt;child/children ends up with more time having been spent with&lt;br /&gt;‘others’ than with their own parents. These are the same&lt;br /&gt;demographic of children that spend most of their time watching&lt;br /&gt;television… alone…. until their parents get home. All in the name&lt;br /&gt;of preserving a ‘pseudo feminism’ and avoiding very important&lt;br /&gt;issues.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;38&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Again, as I have stated… it is in my belief that the biggest reason&lt;br /&gt;to preserve and promote this pseudo feminism, is derived from the&lt;br /&gt;corporate influence on society. Firstly, as I have pointed out, it&lt;br /&gt;creates a political body for hire that really is void of any actual grasp&lt;br /&gt;on anything truly political….. it then acts as a wonderful ‘fuel’ and&lt;br /&gt;guarantee of the movement of convenient products. The political&lt;br /&gt;resonation and ramifications of this are harrowing at the least. If&lt;br /&gt;manipulated properly, it moves almost the entirety of political&lt;br /&gt;influence OUT of the hands of the public through this channel of&lt;br /&gt;“feminist activity.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is no more real buying power either, as the entire house&lt;br /&gt;hold depends on someone else’s corporation… and in that then on&lt;br /&gt;those corporations political opinions… this leads to entire families&lt;br /&gt;having no option for their future other than investment with these&lt;br /&gt;companies that have gained such an influence. Again, in the name&lt;br /&gt;of feminism, directly or indirectly. It seems to be seen as some&lt;br /&gt;political muscle for these pseudo feminist… when really it is nothing&lt;br /&gt;more than blind dependence on a larger, faceless influence. That&lt;br /&gt;faceless aspect then becomes another convenient point for the&lt;br /&gt;manipulation of this very large body of uninformed, perhaps even&lt;br /&gt;entrapped people….. sadly thinking that they are striving to&lt;br /&gt;maintain/gain some sort of independence, when in all reality they&lt;br /&gt;are helping to destroy the very structure and environment in which&lt;br /&gt;actual independence in that manner would flourish. You see, actual&lt;br /&gt;independence in that manner is NOT conducive to the productivity&lt;br /&gt;of these larger influences in their preferred manner. What is&lt;br /&gt;unfortunate, is that actual independence really isn’t a detriment&lt;br /&gt;either.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then there are all those other peripheral ‘profit opportunities‘&lt;br /&gt;which are derived from dysfunctional familial situations.&lt;br /&gt;The comical aspect of this is quite predictably the fact that if you&lt;br /&gt;survey 1000 females from all areas of existence, you will NOT find&lt;br /&gt;ONE pseudo feminist.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another note on the ‘influence’ of this broken movement, is the&lt;br /&gt;media in all forms. Celebrity personalities are constantly utilized to&lt;br /&gt;portray the “Modern Feminist” in various forms and situations.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What is laughable about this, is that there is not one celebrity that&lt;br /&gt;fills the definition of feminist. They are ALL incredibly dependent&lt;br /&gt;on something else to provide…. even those with children have no&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;39&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;want or need to endeavor into the area of actual feminism. Many of&lt;br /&gt;them are substance abusers whether it is known publicly or not. In&lt;br /&gt;the event that you are un aware… substance abuse makes a person&lt;br /&gt;all the more dependent on those they get that substance from…&lt;br /&gt;especially in a high profile situation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For instance, there is a certain female musical performer that was&lt;br /&gt;the wife of a very popular ‘punk/pop’ genre male performer… who&lt;br /&gt;is often used to promote some supposed ‘feminist’ stance and image&lt;br /&gt;in her professional and ‘personal’ career. Her image is seen as some&lt;br /&gt;‘female warrior’ in the battle of the sex’s…. as a feminist figure.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;SHE IS A JUNKIE. A junkie with a daughter that is coming into a&lt;br /&gt;time in her life where she really needs a stable figure from which to&lt;br /&gt;become herself through growth and relationship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This performer has a distinct dependency. She nor those that&lt;br /&gt;provide her fix, could care less as to how she procures the funds to&lt;br /&gt;attain that fix. The power of celebrity then becomes quite&lt;br /&gt;dangerous beyond simple influence on a political body/movement.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This professional performer is never promoted as a junkie. That&lt;br /&gt;isn’t the preferred image that sells records for the record company.&lt;br /&gt;She is portrayed as feminist icon. Her image and fan base are often&lt;br /&gt;used in the manners I have described for ‘feminism for hire.’ They&lt;br /&gt;are very prominent in the areas of creating (and maintaining)&lt;br /&gt;political issues. Sadly, the issues aren’t even the important part….&lt;br /&gt;Maintaining them is simply seen as some sort of profit vehicle.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Actual feminist in my opinion, should do everything that they can&lt;br /&gt;to avoid celebrity influence on their lives. There are no celebrity&lt;br /&gt;feminists. THEY ARE CELEBRITIES. The ‘feminist’ is nothing&lt;br /&gt;more than another target market from the perspective of them and&lt;br /&gt;their management, parent companies. It is surprising how&lt;br /&gt;believable they are seen as being in those capacities.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This isn’t to say that I believe celebrities should not portray&lt;br /&gt;political issues and situations…. Factually the entertainment&lt;br /&gt;industry depends on those portrayals… I just don’t see how people&lt;br /&gt;lose the fact that they are professional LIARS. Just because they&lt;br /&gt;portray something in a performance, does not mean it is their&lt;br /&gt;personal belief… especially after reaching an area of society where&lt;br /&gt;EVERYTHING is provided for except their sustained popularity…&lt;br /&gt;which is their very first concern- BAR NONE.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;40&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The sensationalism and ‘celebrity’ aspect of modern politics and&lt;br /&gt;political figures should be taken more into account as well, in my&lt;br /&gt;opinion. Especially considering the large corporate influences and&lt;br /&gt;the use/manipulation of that “pseudo feminist” body. It really has&lt;br /&gt;become very similar in many respects to outright celebrity. This has&lt;br /&gt;been evident for decades, as that aspect has grown…. but never so&lt;br /&gt;much as in regard to the modern feminist, the feminist movement&lt;br /&gt;and what it truly represents in the modern day.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/14962466-112275355104773069?l=modernamericanfemaleobservation.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://modernamericanfemaleobservation.blogspot.com/feeds/112275355104773069/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=14962466&amp;postID=112275355104773069&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14962466/posts/default/112275355104773069'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/14962466/posts/default/112275355104773069'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://modernamericanfemaleobservation.blogspot.com/2005/07/dissecting-modern-american-female.html' title=''/><author><name>David A. 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